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I know most people don’t agree but if you knew my health and my life maybe you could. I did not want to have sex with my child father but he makes me like I say no he will take my panties off etc I’m like super dry and he force himself in me. Sometimes I hurt. Well we had that but I was ovulating I asked him to at least put a condom on then he can’t just hurry and finish he said no and pulled out I watched the sperm come out of him. Well I got pregnant and he is like I finished in my own I didn’t pull out like typical mind games he do. Well I aborted. I’m in so much pain like I can’t walk. He telling me I’m making it up etc and all I’m asking is for his help with the kids I know he worked but I can’t walk I think this is normal. I’m cooking cleaning etc. but he is saying I’m a grown man can’t tell me what to do and boss me around. That pain is made up crying over a little bit of pain but I’m in soo much pain. My child is helping me and I feel so bad.

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I am soooo sorry to hear that. My baby father can also be a bit forceful with sex when he wants it but its disrespectful how he's treating you. I never had an abortion but I've been support for two abortions and mentally and physically it is difficult from what I see. You deserve the love, respect, and care that you need right now. All mom are soldiers but hope you find relief. If anything I think doctors are giving insane after care instructions. We need rest after our bodies endure. Good luck and speedy recovery.

I don’t know how to gently say this but you are being assaulted number one. The abortion is understandable and if anyone judges you just send them on their way. Did you think about contacting any charities for help? You don’t have to deal with this alone

Let's be honest, because this is the way to save your life! This is sexual and domestic ABUSE! You said no and he continued anyway. Being married does not give someone the right to force sex on you.

If you're in so much pain that you can barely walk, please get medical help today. Call 111 (UK) or go to A&E if you feel seriously unwell. Severe pain after what you've described should be assessed by a healthcare professional.

If you're in the UK, you can contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247 (free, confidential, 24/7).

If you're in the USA, you can contact RAINN's National Sexual Assault Hotline on 800-656-HOPE (4673) that is available 24/7 by phone, text, or online chat.

You deserve support, to be believed, and to be safe. ❤️

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Is anyone actually trying to meet up on this thing lol

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I wanna friend I can facetime or just talk all day we can smoke in laugh in have good talks I’m down for whatever who trying be my friend?🥹

If I can’t be trusted with my partners phone

If I can’t be trusted with my partners phone should I just withhold sex.

I am a teacher my boyfriend pays for ChatGPT so I used up all my free chats so I asked him if I could borrow his phone to finish off my lesson planning he then proceeds to tell me no he can’t trust me with his phone. I get it’s a personal choice to let someone see or use your phone. However it just triggered me in a sense to why can’t you trust me with it? Is there something worth hiding that I can’t see or use your phone? I didn’t say anything I just said okay and walked off. Then I was just thinking like maybe withhold sex and maybe focus on stuff that could build the trust between each other more bc while I don’t care to have the password to his phone but I can’t marry a man that can’t trust me to use his phone for whatever reason (we’ve been together for 5 years now) we don’t have each others phone password which is cool but just when I asked to use it for something and get hit with I’m not trusted is just alarming because the only thing I can think of a person being guarded with their phone is due to them trying to hide something🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m really tired of it being acceptable to treat human beings like tik tok feed

People have no idea how to connect like at all. I’ve been on here for years trying to find moms in my area and it’s been the biggest struggle. People always say anyone without friends is a red flag and this just isn’t true. Most of the time people with no friends don’t have any becsue they’re seen as uninteresting or not valuable enough. We tend to expect people to wow us immediately like a damn short video. If it doesn’t immediately grab your attention you just scroll past it and it only takes a few seconds for everyone to decide it’s boring. You do the same thing to human beings and it’s just gross. I’ve always hated when I try to converse with someone and within seconds their face completely drops becsue I’m not interesting enough to them and they just completely stop listening and just walk away and feel no shame. I’m actually stating to hate people. You can’t even post incognito because them no one will reply because they can’t see if you’re interesting enough to them. No one will ever be good enough until you learn to lower your standards. And I’m not interested in talking online

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If I can’t be trusted with my partners phone

I’m really tired of it being acceptable to treat human beings like tik tok feed