Need some advice

I was in this same situation years ago and ultimately it’s your decision to make. If you decide to keep the baby it’s your body your choice. I kept mine and I must say that was rhetorical best decision I ever made. It’s a bit tough doing it alone but you’ll survive and when you see your baby it’ll be worth it. If you need someone to talk to , I’m available anytime ❤️

Hi! It’s not up to him. After my baby daddy found out I wasn’t on birth control he wanted me to take plan b I said no & I ended up pregnant & keeping the baby You got this! Depending where you are look up the laws for example in CA you dont even have to disclose anything about your pregnancy to the father if you’re not married. Tell him it’s your choice whether he wants to be involved or not is up to him but he doesnt get to decide feel free to message me ☺️

If you don't plan to pursue him for any support and he's made it blatant that he doesn't want to be involved what do you feel like you'd gain in telling him you're keeping the baby? I hope that doesn't come sounding rude because that's not my intention I'm just genuinely curious.
If it were me and my partner expressed they wanted me to abort my baby, and I decided to keep them. I personally wouldn't bother telling him. I wouldn't want him trying to worm back in and make himself seem like a white knight for taking over the role that he tried to get out of. I feel like it could go in a negative direction if you do express you're keeping your baby, and that he'd pressure you even further. And that's so much added stress that you and baby don't need. The first trimester is the hardest to get through. And keeping your stress as minimal as possible is ideal.
However you decide to go about it, whether you tell him or not. I wish you a smooth and sweet pregnancy and a delivery with no issues, just love and joy 🤍

It is your choice.

Don’t let anyone sway your decision! If he continues to try to, I would offer the termination of his parental rights. He will then have to live with his decision, and you can stick with yours! Sending lots of love though because I can’t imagine how brave you must be and how loved this baby must already be to make that decision to go it alone - single mums are absolute wonder women! ❤️

ultimately it is not up to him but if he doesn’t want it then save yourself the anxiety & worry. i love my daughter but i wish the father of our child wanted to be here….i mean im doing it, yea. but honestly, im sad af.

the father of our child wanted me to keep it because i would’ve gotten the abortion so this co parenting is hard. i want him so bad in every way. i love our daughter. I’m sad & sleepy. & I’m too fucking sexy to be walking around wondering when can i get back out there. postpartum is no joke.

Keep your child- document document document

I am in a similar situation. Your body, your choice. Don’t be pressured. Can have a chat if you need

girl keep your baby & put that man on child support 🫂