No bestfriend

I’m so sad my baby’s bday party is Saturday and it makes me sad to think I have no friends to invite or even a bestfriend in my life I could have over or just help plan with.

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Awww hunni. From next week, start taking baby to the weekly storytime/baby bounce sessions at the library, look for a mothers group, any local activities and just give yourself a goal to make some mum friends for NEXT year, for her 2nd (3rd?) bday. Cant do much about this Sat, but you can have goals in place to make a handful of playmates for her and some mum friends for you. Good luck xx
Last resort if you’re game- an open invite on FB. Just put her invite up, state what activities will be there and see who shows up. I did that once for a Mother’s Day karaoke bash and we had 10 mums come, fantastic night. They were wanting a night out just had no one to go with.

I’m sorry to hear, I am in a similar situation, wouldn’t have anyone really to invite, but put out an invite on this app for your area I’m sure folks will come

Anyways hope you have a great birthday! 🎂

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Flexi working request

When did you girls put in your request for work or start the discussion? I’m going back in May and to be honest I just want to know what I am going back too!

If u take ur kids to build a bear for your 3 yr olds birthday are you getting your other kid an stuffed animal too?

We went last year for my daughters bday and my ex said it’s not our sons birthday bday so he’s not getting one plus we didn’t have the money to get him one too but I still felt bad, this year we figured build a bear was a good place to meet but I’m wondering if my son shows interest do I get him one too? He’s 4 non verbal for context.

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I’m not sure if I’m wrong for this or not.

My son’s dad constantly wants to have sec. Even when I don’t want to. It’s like some thing he expects of me. And to be honest we don’t really talk or hang out much. But like he’s always trying to have sec with me, sharking around me and all that. It makes me uncomfortable because I don’t have a high sex drive. And to be truthful I never get horny. I get turned on but I don’t have no desire to make out with him and be all sexual like people do.
I don’t really understand because I like sec but there’s no way to get horny. I’ve always felt like something has been wrong me with regarding sexual desires.

I do get off tho. It’s weird and once I got off 7 times 😮

Is there anyway to fix this?

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