Spam emails.. help pls so frustrated

My husband keeps getting emails in his spam for pornhub and tinder and many more how do I find out if its just spam mail or if hes just sent them emails to spam or if he is actually on these website? Help!!!

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Depends if they have a like username sometimes. If he has an account it’ll usually show a username that’s the same on each email. But I get spam for tinder still even tho I haven’t used it in 5 years and then never used porn hub and sometimes get them. Could just be unlucky and having them for no reason x

Go into his phone and look at his battery percentage per app and you can see what apps he’s using how often.

Well i know he has used pornhub in the past but tinder he shouldn't be getting emails from there we have been married for 20 years

🤣🤣🤣

I mean ive done that before i have all his log in info for google and i know there are tons of ways to hide apps in your phone i just havent found anything

whats so funny?

not necessarily.. I have some gross spams and i’m not involved in any of it. our data is constantly bought and sold and also there’s data breeches they’re just trying to find a sucker dumb enough to click and talk back

yeah I thought so hes just been notorious for doing sneaky shit behind my back he swears hes not doing any of those things any more but once the trust is broken its hard to give it back.. its just super frustrating that they wont go away its a reminder of the shit hes done 🥺

My spam is full of those and Ive never been on those sites at all

Thanks that makes me feel a little bite better lol

Does he have an iPhone? If you go into his App Store and type in Tinder it’ll show a “redownload” button instead of saying “get”… I haven’t had dating apps in 3+ years and tinder still shows up as redownload on my phone

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I told him I feel like our marriage is a lie and we should never have went through with the wedding, had I known I wasn’t the only female he had eyes for.
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