I’d really appreciate your advice!
As we all know, nursery fees in the UK aren’t cheap, so I’m trying to understand how other nurseries handle this situation.
If your child is normally booked in 5 days a week, but you need to go abroad for 1–2 months, has anyone successfully reduced their nursery attendance temporarily to, say, 2 days a week, then returned to 5 days a week afterwards?
My understanding is that if I give the nursery the required notice, I can reduce the sessions and pay for the 2 days during that period. However, my nursery has said they cannot guarantee that my child’s original 5-day place will still be available when we return.
I’m struggling to understand this. If I’m giving the required notice, continuing to pay for 2 days, and the nursery is still receiving payment for those 2 days, why would my baby potentially lose his original 5-day place after being away for only a month?
I completely understand that the nursery may want to fill the other 3 days temporarily. But if they do, does that mean the nursery can effectively give those sessions to another child and then say my baby’s place is no longer available when we return?
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I would have to re read the contract but my nursery I believe offers a slightly reduced cost if you give the correct amount of notice for a holiday but I also know a lot of nurseries still charge full cost.
If you're not paying for the days at all, I can't see why they'd have to hold them for you. You'll have to check your contract and if you're using the government funded hours, you'll have to check if you're still eligible to use this for a month long period while your child isn't actually attending.

Nurseries I've worked at have a set number of days holiday you can take and you don't pay those sessions as long as enough notice is given, but it's only usually a few days.
Essentially if you wanted to reduce days that would be a change to your contract and those spaces then become available for another child on the waiting list to fill. Once they offer that place then that child fills those days and you would have to wait and see if there was enough space for your child to increase their attendance days back up when you returned from holiday.

The likelihood of them being able to fill 3 days for just a month or two is slim to none. People start nursery with the idea of it being a long term thing. If I was taking a month out I’d expect to pay in full x

I have the same problem too. The nursery he attends is very popular in our area (London) and always has a very long waiting list. I reduced my child’s days to 2 days week before. I had to wait for 2 months for the extra days when other babies moved to the toddler room. Their policy also expects us to pay even when we’re not using it. It’s ridiculous 😒.

It would depend if they have a waitlist, if there is a child waiting for those particular sessions they may give them to them once you reduce your sessions which means your sessions won’t be available when your return.
Have you asked if maybe you can reduce to half days for the whole week? This will reduce your bill but it’s less likely someone will want afternoon sessions.
It’s definitely worth reading your contract and the terms and conditions you signed as well as the rules for funding in your local authority. You should be able to call them to see if you reducing will impact your funding claim. Please be mindful of this though as some authorities will remove funding if a child doesn’t attend for a certain time period x
i might be crazy but honestly i'm not sure, her gums feel hard and she has been drooling a ton lately. she also has been getting super fussy and hasn't been eating as long / will refuse the breast at first. she has been eating her hand (but not in a hunger way) and will eat my arm, i am just very unsure.

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Little rant but mainly looking for advice of any kind 😩
So my eldest boy is 6 and he is really struggling with his behaviour over the summer holidays he’s been so naughty and has constantly pushed buttons completely on purpose he claims he can’t control it and that his brain is bad however I can’t excuse or understand how he can do things like pour Pepsi all over his dads £1400 gaming set up because he ‘doesn’t like it’ or smash his tv out of anger coz a game wouldn’t let him play it how he wanted he’s constantly stealing things like chewing gum or snacks and then refusing to eat actual food and he’s shouting at us and telling us he hates us and we’re worst parents and he’s even gone as to far as attempting to hit his baby brother who’s 17 months old. Overall I’m at breaking point because this isn’t who he is yet it’s all he seems to be doing lately I’m heartbroken and feel defeated and I just want my boy back and to help get to bottom of this 😩😭
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If so how long a day?
If not how are you getting things done?😭
I was adamant I wasn't going to give screen time but man it has been the best thing someday to get chores done or change his nappy.
But I'm also reluctant for that to be my go to all the time and trying to minimise as much as possible
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I’d really appreciate your advice!
As we all know, nursery fees in the UK aren’t cheap, so I’m trying to understand how other nurseries handle this situation.
If your child is normally booked in 5 days a week, but you need to go abroad for 1–2 months, has anyone successfully reduced their nursery attendance temporarily to, say, 2 days a week, then returned to 5 days a week afterwards?
My understanding is that if I give the nursery the required notice, I can reduce the sessions and pay for the 2 days during that period. However, my nursery has said they cannot guarantee that my child’s original 5-day place will still be available when we return.
I’m struggling to understand this. If I’m giving the required notice, continuing to pay for 2 days, and the nursery is still receiving payment for those 2 days, why would my baby potentially lose his original 5-day place after being away for only a month?
I completely understand that the nursery may want to fill the other 3 days temporarily. But if they do, does that mean the nursery can effectively give those sessions to another child and then say my baby’s place is no longer available when we return?
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I'm attending a birthday party for a family friend's baby who is turning one. Mum's a book worm so I'm assuming she has many many books for her son.
Does anyone have any good books i could gift that aren't popular so there is less chance she already has it😅
Thanks!x
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