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I’m after some advice on my unborn baby daddy I told him yesterday I don’t feel happy in the relationship anymore and that I don’t trust him and I know I will be doing all the work as in all the night feeds as he is clueless i don’t really want the baby to have his last name either do you think I’m being too harsh

Did you get push presents?

I want to ask for a push present but im not sure what to ask for i prefer practical useful items I dont wear much jewelry or makeup, and I definitely dont like expensive brands like Louis vitton or Gucci, im just not that kind of woman to use that kind of stuff. I'd like to have stuff that I like to do but honestly I have not had time to enjoy almost any of my hobbies so I feel like it would be wasted. Does anyone have any ideas?

Starting nursery - End of mat leave

Not sure what I am hoping with this post. Maybe some comfort.
I will be back to work next week and my baby will start nursery tomorrow (4 days a week) full day.

I know it is part of the process for working out of the house moms, and I am been trying to get my head around but I am struggling. When I think that I won’t be the one spending the day with her, it breaks my heart.

I am trying to think of the main reasons I am back to work. To move to a house with more space, to provide for her etc but my heart is broken.

We don’t have family around so she basically only stayed and was looked after by me for 12 months. She is very attached and I am so concerned she will struggle.

I feel like a bad mom for sending her, but I don’t really have another option at this point in life.

How do you cope?

Thank you

Loneliness and loosing my spark

I’ve been dealing with some pretty intense loneliness ever since I had my second baby. I feel like I completely lost myself and I have nothing outside of being a mom. And honestly no motivation to do anything for myself. I don’t have many friends. My husband works a ton so he’s barely home. I feel like a shell of a human honestly. Like how the heck do I get myself back?!

Making friends is becoming a full time job.

Anyone else feel exhausted trying to make friends? I cant explain how many times i have reached out, tried to make plans for the day, little outings, holidays, anything and everything. It always seems to be the people that beg for friendship that are the ones who actually dont bother!

Its really getting me down too. I either dont hear back, get ghosted or just rearranged constantly. I get it, we got kids, i get it? Your a single mum too and childcare isnt available. My god- bring them! We can struggle together.

I guess im just ranting at this point. And it isnt even about having the money to do things.. I always offer to treat, I dont even care. I just want somebody to make plans with.

Gonna go cry

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