So my husband 36M said he can live without having sex

So my husband 36M said he can live without having sex or masturbation for a year and he never initiate the sex by himself and it’s been 3& half year of marriage life it was always me who initiates it and he just never do and i 26F have got rejected too many times tooo but i respect him cause i love him so much too i just feel confused now what’s going on😭i asked him if ur cheating tell me ill not scold u nor I’ll judge you I’ll try to figure something out or let’s be honest to Eachother like that but he said he is not cheating he said he is not masturbatinb every day he said he don’t watch prn every day he said he don’t want to have it simply he don’t feel like it he said i have no idea what can i do now 😭 I’m stuck we had sex 7-8 times in entire year 😭 😭

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My husband doesn’t want have sex with me after birth

My baby soon will be 11 months! When I found out that I was pregnant we stopped having sex atv5 months! After I gave birth we had sex after 4 k months because I had to make a point and get upset if it was up to him he would happily not have sex at all!

Summer came all the time we had sex because I initiate it! After the summer holiday we were apart from each other for almost one month - I have been back for 1 week and he literally not even once he tried! Today we are going out for a date night which he insisted, I am annoyed that I need to leave my son behind and on the way I said what is the point about date night getting dressed and leaving my son behind as we do not have a date at home (meaning we do not have sex) I feel we are becoming roommates! He is amazing father and husband! I don’t work he let me look after my Baby and pursue my dreams! But I don’t want to be in a sexless marriage.

mom bff?

hello! i’m brittany. 25, nc, i am looking for my bff! simply put, i miss girl hood! random ft calls, pointless conversations, random handouts, and just having a good time. i like to believe i am a “middle maintenance” friend 😂 neither high or low. i’m a mom of one. I enjoy fitness/ wellness, cars, romance/ action movies, and being outdoors! feel free to reach out if you’re interested and want to connect! :))

Maternity pay

Firstly, I just wanna say I recognise I’m in an incredibly privileged position and I’m definitely not taking it for granted. Secondly, I also really love my company and my bosses so I’m worried about falling out with them.

I work for a company that got bought out and therefore my contract changes mid mat leave. The first six weeks was under my old contract on statutory pay (90%) and the rest shifts to enhanced/full pay. The statutory average weekly earnings period was actually when I received my bonus so I would be entitled to more pay than a standard month under the 90% period.

I received my first payslip which would’ve had the first couple of weeks of Maternity pay and it was just my normal salary so I questioned it and they gave me the response that they were going to honour my new contract early rather than the statutory 90% of average weekly earnings (as if it’s a favour to me).

I was hoping for the extra money to cover the fact that my husband isn’t entitled to paternity pay but now I feel awkward saying anything to my boss as if I’m fleecing them of money or something and if they genuinely believe they’re doing me a favour by giving me enhanced pay rather than the “90%”.

Would you say anything or just be grateful to receive your normal salary?

Husband is not romantic

So my husband doesn’t buy me flowers doesn’t really do dates and doesn’t buy gifts he says it’s just something he’s never really done for a girl and doesn’t see the point basically…he says he MIGHT buy me flowers MAYBE once a month but even that’s too much lol he rather just give me money when I ask etc lol and if anything he will give me money to buy my own flowers 🙂

Funny

So my husband want teax me last night saying( you know what I’ve noticed not that you have to you have an attempted to have sex for some reason)
This I’m just said yea just haven’t felt like lately but I’m thinking how tf you expect me want have sex with you after you told me you been sleeping with a whore and now she pregnant but I’m suppose still want have sex with you.

Pen pal?

Anyone want a pen pal but a legit one that’s going to reply and isn’t going to take forever? Lol