AITA?
for context, I said this to her because whenever she would simply just watch him during the day she would have him napping at 8 PM so he would be awake until four in the morning and it took me over a month to get him on a schedule and I simply don’t want her to ruin it because she’s negligent about it.
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Definitely not the asshole, not her child not her rules, I'm the petty type to pull the "so am I not allowed to have rules and boundaries for my kid??" "Are you saying that my feelings as his primary care giver don't matter??" Be a victim to the fullest extent bc sometimes ppl won't understand otherwise
I don’t think you’re being unreasonable at all. If it took you over a month to get him onto a decent schedule and she’s previously let him nap at 8pm knowing it leaves you dealing with a 4am wake-up, I’d be protective of that routine too 😭 The “one day you’ll learn” comment would annoy me as well because you’re the one dealing with the consequences afterwards. I’d just keep the boundary really simple: overnights are fine as long as his usual nap/bedtime routine is followed; if it repeatedly isn’t, no more overnights for now. That’s not controlling, it’s consistency for your child 🤍
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for context, I said this to her because whenever she would simply just watch him during the day she would have him napping at 8 PM so he would be awake until four in the morning and it took me over a month to get him on a schedule and I simply don’t want her to ruin it because she’s negligent about it.
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