Am I wrong??
So we been looking for a new bed and my man and his friend went to go get a new bed without telling me. So when he picked me up he told me he went and got us a new bed I made a comment saying ohh so you took him and not me, He said I was Unappreciative. When we got home I tested the bed and I didn’t like it I didn’t say nothing. So when I went downstairs I heard his friend make a comment saying ohh you’re going to see why I like the bed. Like wtf the bed choice is supposed to be between me and him not someone else like I’m the bitch you sleeping with not your friend. Like am I wrong for feeling some kind of way?
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No- cuz why is he making this big purchase without consulting his partner! Like the fuck?!? If anything he is lacking consideration, not that you are unappreciative.
I would be pissed too. A bed makes a huge difference in how well you sleep and how much your body heals/hurts. Because of that, it affects every aspect of your daily life.
He better have a 30 day money back guarantee or something.
I definitely think it's weird to go bed shopping with a friend instead of the partner you're sharing the bed with. You both should be comfortable with the choice since it's gonna last a few years. Unfortunately, men don't think the same way as us. He probably just wanted to surprise you and took his friend along to help carry the mattress. The question is, would you have been less annoyed if he did all by himself?
I definitely think it's weird to go bed shopping with a friend instead of the partner you're sharing the bed with. You both should be comfortable with the choice since it's gonna last a few years. Unfortunately, men don't think the same way as us. He probably just wanted to surprise you and took his friend along to help carry the mattress. The question is, would you have been less annoyed if he did all by himself?
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