advice 😊

The 1-2 years is advisory. It’s not necessarily ‘unsafe’ there are just higher risk factors, particularly surrounding your eligibility for a VBAC if you wanted one.
Not sure where you’re based but if UK, you’ll likely be labeled high risk because of your previous section, so your midwives & consultants will monitor you extra closely, if that’s what your main worry

i think it's that that's i'm worried about and because i was clueless with my first and she had colic, i know it will be different if i have this one because ive dont it before, think im just worried overall and a bit anxious

I was told to wait a minimum of a year, I’ve heard that it’s because your scar may not be healed all the way and the baby might have a chance of implanting in the scar and not in the utero. I got pregnant again at around 14 months after my C-section, I’m 17 weeks right now and I can feel my scar stretching a little bit already. Getting pregnant earlier really just increases your chances for complications if your scar isn’t healed all the way. I don’t know if they can do a scan on the scar or something just to check how well it’s healed internally but you could try asking!