Fantasies
I’m gonna be honest in my 20’s I was promiscuous and I had threesomes with men and women. My husband keeps asking me what type of fantasies do I have and because I’ve pretty much done what I wanted to do in the past I don’t have any freaky fantasies that I want to fulfill. He got upset saying since I’ve done things in the past then why don’t I want to do them with him. Honestly I’ve gotten it outta my system and we’re 38 with 3 kids. Also my husband gets jealous if a guy says hey to me. Like at my 20 yr reunion he damn near had a heart attack because I hugged 3 guys. None of which I dated and I barely dated in HS because I’m from a small town and I’m related to half the town. But him getting upset because I don’t wanna threesome with him and some other random guy is weird to me especially how jealous he gets
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Oh he’s definitely not ready. My friend is on the receiving end of this…her husband has a story similar to yours. It sucks, because you’ve gotten it all out of your system, but it is unfair that now your partner doesn’t get to have the same experience. Again, your partner specifically doesn’t sound like he is ready for any of that lol but I also empathize with the situation.
He’s def not ready but it doesn’t hurt to try to bring a toy in the play, maybe having a fake “member” will help satisfy some of the interest
He gets jealous but wants a 3some?! Does he understand the logic that is lacking behind this? 🥴
Any type of jealousy any where in your relationship is a big red flag to have a 3 some. It happens a lot that couples want to have a 3 some and then it ruins the relationship due to jealousy.
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