Tantrums over the smallest thing
My son is having tantrums over the smallest thing, he will go to play with a toy then a second later go into meltdown for no reason. The drama is like something from eastenders.
FTM so jsut learning as I go 🤣
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it’s a nightmare isn’t it! for some reassurance, although i’m sure you already know, it’s all developmental and he isn’t doing anything out of the ordinary. it may seem like the smallest thing for us, but toddlers have huge emotions and haven’t learnt how to process them yet, hence the tantrums 🙈🤣 give him space to process the feelings and just reassure him when he’s calmed down that all we can do! my daughter has had about 10 today alone, and almost every other day! up until a week ago she’d never had one so goodness me this past week has killed me🙈🤣xx
Oh my days, sometimes I don't know whether to laugh or cry 😂 My eldest daughter was so good and didn't really have tantrums until after 2/towards 3. However, my youngest daughter, she is insane 😂
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Breastfeeding
Pros:
- Better for baby
- Don't have to pay for formula
Cons:
- I'm probably gonna get touched out
- Worries, what if I don't produce enough, latching etc
- I want my partner to be able to handle feeds too
- I'll be going back to work after 9m
Formula
Pros:
- Already know what I'm doing
- Dad can do feeds
- Feel like this will be easier when baby starts nursery at 9m but don't know.
Cons
- More expense
Also please give me more pros/cons for both as that might help me make a decision 😅
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Is it unrealistic to change our 1 bed flat to a 2 bed, where we'd change the front room slightly for my partner, me and the newborn to sleep so that my toddler can have his own room. I'm also weary of my son having to get used to being in his own room before baby comes, so us staying where we are would enable him time for that.
Or, do we push for another flat that's bigger and more expensive and scrape by?
What are your thoughts?
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