First time mother - turning 42 with 3 month infant. Beginning to notice that I have trouble occasionally falling back to sleep after his 2.30am fed and awake for hours later. This is unrelated to anxiety or hypersensitivity to the baby needing me at night.
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I’m 42 with a 2 year old (almost 3) and I think postpartum depletion and turning 40 fast tracked me into perimenopause. This year I started noticing the 3 am wake up and the inability to fall back asleep was happening frequently. Started on progesterone and it has made a huge difference.

My kids are 5 and 8. I am going through the same 2-3am wake up every night. Some nights I can fall right back asleep after I get up and pee. Some nights I can’t and had to read to fall asleep. The problem is when the book is exciting, I lose track of time and don’t realize until it’s almost 5am. Then there’s the irritability and anger. The cycle of overstimulation and wanting to shut everything out. The overall body pains. Someone at work said it’s perimenopause. Oh now I am can’t even focused on my book. Yeah so if you are awake at 2-4am, message me, I likely will be awake too! God bless your soul for having your babies when you are 42!

I am 45, my kids are 6 and 3. My 3 year old started to sleep a bit better but I am still waking up a lot and if it's around 5:30 I really struggle to go back to sleep even though I really need more sleep
It's horrible as I notice my mind is just wandering from one thing to another, and none of it has any real importance!
Hey mummies and daddies, has anybody got experience with baby not getting used to nursery? My daughter started at 12 months (a month ago) and still has a meltdown every time we drop her off. How long until it settles? I worry that she’s just not happy there :(

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Basically I have a 5 year old son and I'm having a little girl in October but unfortunately I don't have my son living with me and my unborn daughter can't come home either it's because of domestic violence records cohesive behaviour physical and mental abuse from him and hes always yelling at me saying it's my fault because I was in care and I'm on methadone it's killing me inside

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How are we doing night shifts with our partners?
My partner is back at work so I only wake him up for nappy changes (my back still kills me after c-section). I breastfeed and our little dude eats every 2-3 hours and then takes a while to settle again. I know if I passed him to my partner, it would just be another thing to wake baby up even more. And I feel bad because he’s back at work.
So I spend most of the night awake.
3 weeks PP, so my milk supply is still calibrating and bottles aren’t an option until 5 weeks or so.
I also really struggle with day time sleeping and with going to bed early, so the idea of him taking baby 7pm-1am and me doing 1am-7am would also cost me sleep.
I’m so tired, I’m absolutely losing it 😭
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