Hey guys!
I'm looking for new mum friends to go to groups with, out for coffee (or hot chocolate if you aren't a coffee fan like me) to message & rant to! Not just message onceš
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Hey girl hey I need mom friends to message and chat too. Im SAHM so it fets pretty lonely. Anyone can mssg me !

Hey āŗļø Iām a mom of a 20mo,itās been pretty lonely since having my son so I would like to meet new peopleā¦you can message me in private if you would like āŗļø

Hey girl we could be friends!!
Hey yāall! This is meghanš Iām currently looking for some genuine friends that I can talk to about anything and everythingāno judgment, just real friendship. ā¤ļø
I currently live in Kentucky, but Iām definitely open to building friendships with people from all over the world! š Distance doesnāt bother me.
Iām a mom of sevenāsix of my babies are here with me, and one is my angel. ā¤ļø Iām also a BIG texter š, so if youāre looking for someone who actually enjoys talking and getting to know each other, just message me!
If youāre interested in becoming friends, send me a message. Iād love to get to know you! š

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We supposed to be in a relationship, however since being pregnant he just doesnt really care, mind you when I found out I was pregnant I was only 7 weeks i am now 19 weeks,he seemed happy and begged me to not terminate it ( I was not doing it regardless) he continues his life like nothing happens doesnt offer to help in any kind of way⦠we dont live together which i prefer it this way, however he doesnt care at all of how I am feeling or if I need anything ,mind you I am working more hours than a clock and he has not offered to even buy me a meal, if i dont text or call I dont know about him and when I stop doing it he accuses me of ignoring him like be for real š¤¦š½āāļøso frustrating⦠i am really thinking into ending this relationshipā¦
Any advice/thoughts?
I am going through my pregnancy alone
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Anyone else feel like they are barely holding it all together??? I just want to scream. How do we work full time (to be honest- more than full time while people gaslight and say we should be able to get it all done within the workday), keep house, and have time to be a mama? I just want to stay home and be a mama, but that is not at all financially possible so how do I manage it all? Does anyone know of any jobs that pay around 75K (yes- willing to take a slight pay cut if needed although finances are tight) that is part time, work from home, or simply clock in clock out? My milk supply is declining because of stress and my mental health is rapidly declining.
For context- Iām in special education administration.
Yes- my husband helps a lot.
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Hey guys!
I'm looking for new mum friends to go to groups with, out for coffee (or hot chocolate if you aren't a coffee fan like me) to message & rant to! Not just message onceš
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Long story short we used to talk a lot but she doesnāt work and I started working full time so couldnāt keep up with all her messages (she sends essay long texts all the time, multiple 10+ minute long voicenotes, sometimes 50+ pics and vids). My replies slowed down and would reply only when I had time on the weekends or some nights but I couldnāt respond everyday sometimes just once a week.
All of this was communicated multiple times and I apologised multiple times and explained I simply donāt have that much time. Before I started working we would meet up occasionally for a coffee or quick lunch a few times, but ever since my replies slowed she avoided and never acknowledged when I offered to meet.
She then eventually told me she canāt āget back to the place we used to beā because sheās hurt and thatās why she canāt meet with me but maybe in the future. Now sheās constantly messaging me HUGE long messages every single day, like essays, always talking about herself and her life and everything sheās up to etc, long voicenotes and pictures etc. I saw her one day and she crossed to the other side of the road when she saw me which I thought was weird. I mentioned again in a voice note about catching up in person one day but she didnāt acknowledge that part.
So this time I deliberate decided to write it plain and simple in a short text that she canāt ignore. I just wanted to know because if she doesnāt ever feel like she can get back to a place to see me (we live close) then why is she constantly texting me all the time and itās 90% about herself and Iām getting annoyed now.
I cut her response in photo below because it was a long text she sent about herself and her life etc but you can see she only responded shortly before I my question about meeting up and it was vague and obvious she is trying to avoid it. She didnāt say sure, what day? When?
Just to add, thereās nothing going on in her life causing this, she has more free time now than before, she has told me before summer she doesnāt want to meet because she ācanāt get back to that place with meā, but I donāt understand why sheās going out of her way to message so much
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Hi so I love my baby daddy and I am currently still in a relationship with him but he stays not having the right mentality, hes still active in the streets and he gets drunk on the daily he just leaves our daughter in her playpen when sheās crying as Iām trying to get chores done once he comes home and he wonāt change her diaper and there are most days out of the week where heāll stay for maybe 3 or 4 hours after work drinking and smoking with his co workers and like I donāt wanna complain because Iām a sahm and he deserves a break every once in a while but so do I and I never leave the house and I donāt even want to go back to work because I donāt wanna leave him alone with her because I feel like heāll just be stuck in his phone a majority of the time and just keep trying to put her to sleep as if thatās the only solution to her crying I want to leave him if he wonāt change and Iām sure Iāll have my stuff together by the time our lease ends in April 2027 money wise and everything and sometimes we have great days but itās only the days he doesnāt drink but he doesnāt see it as a problem and tries to normalize it as much as he can. so fucking annoyed.

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