Crib/bassinet transfers

Everytime my first attempt at crib transfer fails, the second attempt always fails too. I then finish it as a contact nap. Only if I get it right in first attempt does the baby continue with the nap in the crib. After how many minutes do you re-attempt if it fails once? Any tips / suggestions on what I could do differently?

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If they woke up on transfer id continue as a contact nap I wouldn’t bother trying again personally. My son didn’t even crib nap until about 8 months they were all contact naps haha.

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It's completely natural to have contact naps. Its society that tried to separate mum from baby by saying we need to put them in cots and walk away. Just slow down and appreciate this beautiful time in yours and their life. Everything else can wait ❤️

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How old?

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Dont hold them too tight is a tip

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Crib/bassinet transfers

Everytime my first attempt at crib transfer fails, the second attempt always fails too. I then finish it as a contact nap. Only if I get it right in first attempt does the baby continue with the nap in the crib. After how many minutes do you re-attempt if it fails once? Any tips / suggestions on what I could do differently?

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