I’m 33 weeks pregnant and I just want to take a fucking nap
But I can’t because we have a three year old and his dad is fucking sleeping.
The grown man has gotten 3 hours of a nap himself. Im nauseous everytime I move and just want to lay down in one fucking spot. But I don’t fucking matter. So whatever.
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Tried to wake him up before I took a shower. Saw his eyes open, expected he was awake so I shut the bathroom door so I could shower & maybe throw up if I had to without being interrupted.
I get out of the shower and the fuckhead is still asleep in the bedroom. The toddler grabbed his dad’s coffee from the fridge. I have no idea if he fucking drank any.
Considered jumping off the balcony, but I just said I’m leaving and got in the car and went for a drive. Now I’m sitting in a parking lot so I can just sit still and not be bothered.
I wish I was a man. Cause then I could just sleep in my own house with zero repercussions
Fuck that shit ladies and excuse my language! I am fed up of hearing how us women have shitty partners and how the guys never pull their weight except society expects us women to be able to do it all without feeling exhausted!
Please ladies, sign my petition to be able to remove the father from the birth certificate due to ANY type of abuse as this piece of paper bounds women to abusive relationships and men as they have "full rights" but never put full effort in!!
https://c.org/C5bbWJydsr
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Has anyone else felt this way? Or am I just an awful mum lol.
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