Not sleeping in crib/ bed

Mine was like this at first but you just have to be patient. They have only known you and your scent and warmth so its quite a big difference. I put one of my pj tops i had worn on his bed like as the bedsheet kinda thing to help him smell me. But honestly its just patience at the moment whilst they adjust to life on the outside. Also putting them in during the day can help them get used to it

It’s not exactly what you asked for but you should look up safe chest sleeping! It is a phase and most babies grow out of it with time and you keeping trying. Chest sleeping is a form of co sleeping that works well with very young babies. Keep trying their sleep space maybe once or twice a day. Sleeping with the crib sheet under your shirt or pillow for a day or two could help them feel comforted by your scent too!

Have you tried putting them to sleep in the bassinet of the pram? That’s the only place our wee boy will sleep at night, it’s much smaller and cosier than the next to me. Or if you have one the midwife suggested to me to put the Moses basket in the next to me but we don’t have one. Also a swaddle wrap made a huge difference to how long our son will sleep, he was usually waking himself up with his startle reflex!

No advice but we are in exactly the same boat! It’s sooo hard surviving on so little sleep so sending lots of love to you!! We’ve tried hot water bottle in bed before he goes in, my top in there, feeding to sleep, rocking to sleep and he just wants us bless him, trying to remember it’s a phase but so so hard and I’m there with you! Xxx

We changed from the next to me to moses as she was the same. She would sleep on me until she's flat out then move her across x