My husband has been cheating on me . I’m scheduled to have our baby tomorrow. What’s wrong with guys specifically the guy I married? Why does he hold insurance money over my head when I say I’m going to leave. Why does the threaten me with committing suicide? Why am I not enough ?
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Please know that this is NOT a reflection of you or your worth. ❤️ You are enough. some people are just selfish, immature, and make choices that hurt the people who love them, and that says everything about their character and nothing about your value.
Right now, focus on you and that sweet baby you’re about to meet. You and your baby are going to be okay.
And please remember, you are not responsible for his choices or for the threats he makes when you try to leave.

That is not normal behavior. It is more than likely best to separate from him. Unless he seems serious help it will only get worse

I’m sorry to hear this.
I relate in a way, I don’t know the TYPE of cheating your husband does but mine talks to girls on Snapchat ( nothing physical ) it’s painful and telling of who he is as a person but some men just act like they don’t give a damn about anyone but themselves. It’s us that truly has the problem… because we question ourselves, we never leave, we think they will change. When in reality it’s who they are. Or at least who mine is. Sometime I think about leaving and what that would be like, but I JUST had a baby, and living on one income?? I feel like damn. I’m stuck. Don’t get me wrong I love him. But jeez.

Honey, you’re more than enough. The way a man acts towards you is in no way a reflection of yourself. It is a reflection of who he is as a person. You could be the most perfect woman in the world and he could still cheat. Why? Because HE has issues. I know this is tough.. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. If you need someone to talk to please reach out to me. I’ll happily talk to you so this doesn’t feel so lonely. I’m so sorry mama.

Please don’t think that your not enough the same thing happened to me with my first born guys get scared of fatherhood and they take it out on us and make us feel worthless but never give up you are being in a new life that will show you the true meaning of being loved leave the man and focus on you and the baby and later on someone who truly loves you will stand at your side and show you how truly special you are and you have us here on the app if you ever need to talk to someone your not alone
I feel like i’m not very good at giving head lol and aside from like conversations i have with my partner of course i feel like im not very good at it, i feel like it takes a while for him to finish and it’s not like i’m blowing his socks off 🥴😂
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My husband has been cheating on me . I’m scheduled to have our baby tomorrow. What’s wrong with guys specifically the guy I married? Why does he hold insurance money over my head when I say I’m going to leave. Why does the threaten me with committing suicide? Why am I not enough ?
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