Struggling to look after my child
Hi ladies iv just been hot with the worst depression I've bee had., I'm really struggling to function and even look after my child. Playing with her has become so hard. Being a good mum feels like it's fading away.
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It took me about a year with professional help and somebody else to help with my baby but it got better. Please seek professional help and talk to your family/partner.
I understand how you feel, if you want to talk just message me.
Sending you ❤️ . Is this pregnancy related depression? I had that awfully x
I’m so sorry you are struggling 🫶 feel free to message me if you’d like, I hope you have loved ones nearby that can offer you support
Please reach out to your child’s health visitor and GP, you need more support and an assessment will help you get more support to feel balanced again within yourself.
Speak with your local talking therapy team, today do an online self referral and please know what you’re experiencing is something so many people are currently facing.
The difference is you need support and help right now this cannot wait. Please lovely for yourself and baby make a call today.
Contact family the ones who support you and be honest about how you’re feeling currently.
I would like you to wrtite down the things which are impacting on your mental health currently and the things that you need support with.
This will be very helpful for the team there refer you onto.
Feel free to contact with me directly if needed.
It’s vital you contact your health visitor and GP first, I know it’s not easy I’ve been there myself.
Getting support during this difficult time will help you to recover x
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