My milk has just come in today. I was just wondering how do I shower as I’ve heard a lot of mixed advice. Am I supposed to leave my bra on in the shower?
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Shower like you usually would

“leave my bra on in the shower” made me giggle lmao
You shower normally boo

No need for a bra.
Also when your milk does come in and you start to experience engorgement, warm showers can help relieve discomfort from the pressure.

Interested to know what advice says to do anything other than shower normally but yes - shower as you have always showered

Shower as normal hun but be prepared you may temporarily turn into one of those fembots from Austin Powers and literally shoot milk out so stand in the shower for a bit after or clean up is messy 🤣
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