Litter box
Has anyone else had an issue with getting their partner to clean the litter. I have to put on gloves and a mask/ scrub my arms after. I don’t want to risk making my baby blind. He will tell me he doesn’t think anything would happen. He says it’s a ploy by doctors to laugh at men cleaning the litter box. I’m stumped and feel as though he could do this one thing
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That’s absolutely not true! I work at a vet clinic and toxoplasmosis is real! It’s mainly if your cat hunts mice or is even partially outdoors you’re more at risk for it. That’s so insensitive of him because even if it were true that nothing would happen, why would he even want to risk that for you and the baby? I would tell him to clean the boxes or because you’re not comfortable risking it
Toxoplasmosis is not a ploy by a doctor! I suggest you send him online articles about it. And also consider if you guys can afford it getting an automatic litter tray
He’s read articles and that’s why he thinks that. I think the percentage of people that get affected is low so he said f it basically
I hate when men....
Use his money to hire someone to clean it. Men only understand money
My husband complained here and there but did the litter box my entire pregnancy!! Why would he want you to do it even..its too stinky lol
I heard from my doctor it can be serious if I am cleaning a litter box and a pregnant women shouldnt go near it at all. Im so sorry about partners lack of care. I would want you to stay away from it if I were caring for my pregnant lady
Throw the man out with the cat shit next time you clean it 😂 my fiancé has been cleaning our two litter boxes since day one of me being pregnant, I cleaned it once to give him a break and he got pissed at me! This is definitely a dating a man child problem. I’m so sorry momma. You should NOT be cleaning that litter box.
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Has anyone else had an issue with getting their partner to clean the litter. I have to put on gloves and a mask/ scrub my arms after. I don’t want to risk making my baby blind. He will tell me he doesn’t think anything would happen. He says it’s a ploy by doctors to laugh at men cleaning the litter box. I’m stumped and feel as though he could do this one thing
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