Potty training tips

We started potty training this weekend and yesterday he did really well only had 1 accident all day but we are finding he doesn't actually wee that much as he also doesnt drink huge amounts.

Iv tried to force him to drink more but he wont, how can I do potty training if hes not even using the potty??

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I gave my son more smoothies and more fruit shoots that he wouldn’t usually have for the first few days. My son is not a big drinker either really. He will down a bottle of juice when he fancies it but doesn’t sip throughout the day. Other than the first few days I just stuck with it. I didn’t do the whole get them on the potty every 30mins/1 hour and would do it at key points before naps, after eating etc. I figured quickly that he could hold his bladder for about 2-3 hours so went with that.

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Keep a bottle of juice out for him, or have juicy things out for him, watermelon/oranges/grapes etc ive found my kids have both held their wees when they needed a poo so by giving juicy foods it helps them do both. Good luck x

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Iv tried to force him to drink more but he wont, how can I do potty training if hes not even using the potty??

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