First time sex in a while.

My husband and I had sex for the first time last night since I had the baby. The baby is 4 months now, but it’s been nearly 5 or six months (we were doing it during pregnancy). A little back story, I had an emergency C-section, but I’m all healed up. We’ve been waiting for me to feel better, and because they recommended waiting like 6 months. 😭😭😭I’ve been ready for a while now, lol. I know he has too. We didn’t plan it, but last night we gave it a go and had sex.

It was AMAZING!!! 😭😭😭 I love this man so much. It was just 🎆🎇🧨🎇🎆,lol, honestly. My only issue is that just before I was ready (we usually cum together), he came first! This ruined EVERYTHING 😔😭 I was no longer in the mood, and he was feeling guilty about it all. I’m still sexually frustrated, and I don’t know how to feel.

I’m going to obviously get the morning-after pill today because we didn’t use contraception (this wasn’t planned), but should we try again today? I don’t know; I’m kind of still annoyed at him. I know it’s not his fault, and it’s been a while. We lasted a good while before I was ready to cum, but he just got there before me. 😔😔 What do I do? Am I overthinking it!

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in our community

Are we all making out with our friends?

I’m just gonna jump straight to the point lol. I want to find friends I can makeout with. Girl friends. I’m in a loveless marriage I don’t want to get a divorce but I’m literally dying inside without someone to pour my cuddling and kissing needs into. I guess I just want to know if there’s any other moms out there that have successfully found a deep friendship with another woman that they were able to bring to the next level without actually having sex.

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Dislike of foreigner?

I don't understand. I've done nct course, didn't click with any of the mums, im doing swimming classes with the baby for 4 months, im doing baby activity classes for the past 2 months.... LO is 8 months old. Like today, 3 new mums, plus me, all had a great chat, class was over and I went on to help to clean up just to return and see the girls exchange phone numbers but none of them asked mine. I smiled and said goodbyes but I was left with this very bitter feelings. All these activities I am the only foreign mum. Everyone else is british. My english is very good. I'm polite. Kind. Happy person. I just don't understand. Have you ever come across situation like this?

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Identity crisis

When do you start feeling like yourself again,my baby is 8 weeks old and i love him so much but i keep missing my old life so much, when does this become enjoyable?

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Male low sex drive?

Anyone got a male partner with low sex drive? Feels very rare and lonely to navigate as men usually are these horny rabbits.

Just wondering if anyone has any experience or advise with this?

I am currently pregnant and our relationship has been on the rocks but the sex life has been poor for a few years.

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