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I have 0 sex life at 40

Not to sound vein but im a really good looking woman. My husband had ED or maybe it's just me but when I say 0 sex 0. Im ready to cheat nor emotionally but my body needs something. Im screaming of starvation. Can anyone relate offer advice shit cheer me on lol idk im so sexual frustrated

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I would definitely cheat life is too short to not be happy, your should talk to your partner and agree to be in an open relationship he should understand.
My partner let me sleep with other Men but only if he could watch either through camera or the same room. But now that I’m 45 I have no Sex drive, No desire to even be with other men anymore it sucks 😥😭😖

Could be that he's stressed. Im going through same thing

Have you talked to him about your frustrations?

Has he has a hormone panel done? Has he tried medication? Does he try?

I can’t tell if you actually meant to write you’d be willing to cheat. That’s a grotesque thing to do, so I’m sure there’s a typo or something.

Cheating is the most horrific option you could take so why not start a conversation with him about maybe opening the relationship or get a divorce

I would insist he have his panels ran at a functional medicine doctor.. he likely doesn't want to admit or talk about it to anyone. He doesn't necessarily need to even say what's up, he could even just say " my wife isn't getting pregnant and we're exploring every avenue.." Men put a lot of their identity in their masculinity and this is NOT something most want to admit having a problem with.

As someone that feels how you feel but has also been cheated on, cheating is NOT the answer....

Divorce him that’s the only way or ask for something else but cheating will not do anything but cause more problems and he can take it far to where if u do cheat he can divorce and take stuff from you if you have anything

I can't see myself cheating but "Im losing my mind sexually" and i have talked to him about if. So he just says he don't know the pills aren't working. I can get that but he doesn't even try to touch me eat me use my toys on me nothing. I feel like he's not interested

You’re right about one thing- I don’t watch porn. Instead, I get laid on the regular by the man who married me. Even in his 40s, we’re having sex virtually every day.

I would 10000% rather be a Karen than have anything in common with you. Your marriage and your life sound f*cking awful lol

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