Can't choose between two nurseries!!
Help!! My partner and I can't choose between two nurseries.
We want our son to start nursery in January as working from home is becoming impossible now😅 he will be 16 months by then.
We have visited two and they both have their pros and cons but can't decide especially since nursery A was visited on a Saturday so didn't see staff and children in action.
I know the decision is up to us at the end of the day but if you saw this list below what would you choose?
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Can you ask to see A on a weekday with the kids in? If they say ‘no’ that would be a red flag to me.
Outside space was very important to me so I would probably have gone for that one. I want mine outside as much as possible!
A all day long. Your child is going to be spending a lot of time there, lots of space and outside areas would be very important to me x
A definitely. B has so many more cons. Seems like a clear choice to me.
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Can't choose between two nurseries!!
Help!! My partner and I can't choose between two nurseries.
We want our son to start nursery in January as working from home is becoming impossible now😅 he will be 16 months by then.
We have visited two and they both have their pros and cons but can't decide especially since nursery A was visited on a Saturday so didn't see staff and children in action.
I know the decision is up to us at the end of the day but if you saw this list below what would you choose?
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