Girls night

Anybody else wish someone would would just ask you on a date. A platonic date. Im cravin a friend, a girls night out once in a while is the type of friendship i need right now. I dont want a play date i dont want to go out as a group i want 1 on 1 connection i want to disassociate from being a mom and wife and just get out the house and eat drink laugh and have experiences away from my everday life. I want to skip all the small talk i dont wanna text n try and akwardly force conversation. I feel like i bond better side by side in person with people and this online stuff is hard ughh.

in our community

Ready to give up on this app

I’ve been on here for a couple weeks now, haven’t made a single friend. I’ve talked to a couple other moms but either been ghosted or don’t get passed a how are you. Messaged several ads to join group chats, no one responds? Did this app fall off or what?

If you’re wanting to make actual friends and not ghost, comment below!

Dealing with infidelity (rant kinda)

The past few days have been very weird for me. My partner of almost 10 years came to me and told me that in the first 3 years of our relationship (before we had our son) he slept with three different women, two of which I also know one of them being his ex where he had sex with her twice. Before he told me about this, there was another instance where he kissed another woman that, again, we both knew but he told me about that almost right away and this was last year.

When he told me this I stayed quiet and honestly I just felt numb and for the past few days we've just spoken about it. I haven't gotten angry. I haven't shouted at him or screamed at him. We've almost acted as if everything is normal and it's kind of driving me insane a little bit. I haven't been able to cry about this every time I think about it, but I think it's mostly because I just can't imagine it. Our whole relationship he has told me that I've been the only one he has had sex with and it was a lie.

I refuse to talk to any of my friends or family about this because I don't want them to know what's going on and I don't want to hear their advice. I also don't want anyone looking at him any differently because of this. I don't know if it's just my brain not letting me process it all at once because it's just too much to take or if I've just given up and emotionally surrendered.

We have one son together who is 3. I am the main one who looks after him and does everything and I don't want to have a breakdown in front of him if it comes to a point where it all just comes out at once.

How does a person deal with this? What do I do? I'm so numb it's weird

First-time SAHMs

How are we going about our days? Especially with a partner who has to work long hours :( I love bonding with bubba, but after some time during the day it gets too much and there isn’t really much to do. Any ideas on how to make the most of the day with a little baby are welcomed

I need a virtual bestie effing friend

Judgement free, venting partner, facetime like all the damn time, plans to eventually meet/ family trips, play Roblox together,420 friendly, girls girl and a girl who’s gonna ride and die and talk shit with me about life. If this is you send me your damn number I been waiting

i think i want a divorce..

i think i want a divorce but i have no job no education no car and i live with my MIL and have a 2 month old baby and we have a joint bank account. when i told my husband im considering divorce he flipped out and said i can go but i cant take the baby. i cant leave my baby! i said we can co parent and he said no divorce isnt an option… i fear ive messed up my life big time and im scared. i think it would be easy to leave if i didnt have my baby. what on earth should i do? has anyone else been through this??

Work

What do people do for work with kids and trying to work around school ect I’m due to go back to work night shift 7pm-7am my 3 year old daughter goes to nursery 9-3:15 my 7 month old will be home with me my husband works day shift 5am-4pm so he’ll have kids for bedtime and my mil will stay the night for the couple of hours I’m not home in the morning and husband is at work but how tf am I gonna cope during the day with my son nursery is too expensive to put him in I’m trying to find other night shift jobs but can’t find a thing I’m dreading it I go back in two weeks