At this stage in my life, I really just want some genuine adult conversations and a REAL friendship. ๐ฅน๐ Somebody I can laugh with, talk about life with, have random girl talk, and just be myself around. No forced conversations, no one-sided effort, just two women genuinely wanting to build a friendship.
I love my family and being a wife and mama, but sometimes you just need your own person outside of all that. ๐ซถ๐ฝ
Am I the only one craving this kind of friendship lately? ๐๐
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Been like this for years. Start well and then it dwindles as life is busy. Im living in australia and my closest friend is my sister, in Wales. I've kind of made peace with it now !!

Wow, I wish you lived closer lol
So BD and I were just talking and the question of when did I lose my virginity came up. I did not feel comfortable answering him. So I told him. The reason behind this is when he knows something about my past he uses it against me later on during arguments. I said this to him. He said he wouldnt. I still dont trust him because hes done this many times. Mind you ive been with him 4 years. Ive never asked abt his past hes never asked much about mine. I honestly think if it happened before me its not something I NEEEEED to know unless he wants to share. Dont get me wrong I want to know about him and what made him who he is today. But intimicy is justโฆ idk. Honestly Im not proud of the age I lost mine. But mostly its just me not wanting this brought up later on being the reason why I dont want to tell him. Anyway aftwr I said I didnt feel comfortable and kept saying I wouldnt tell. He kind of gave me an ultimatum saying he didnt want to be w me if I keep secrets. I responded by saying well I dont want to be w you if youre not going to respect my boundaries and youre going to call it quits over this. Everntually we said well talk about it after work. Am I wrong? Should I just tell him? Or what should I do or say?
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Just a stressed out first time mom with a 4 month old, lost a lot of my friends after being pregnant and having the baby and I just want someone to talk to or maybe even hang out with. ๐ซค

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I NEED some 420 mommy friends ASAP!! it doesnโt matter if you live near me or in another state! I would love to FT and have smoke sessions ๐

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At this stage in my life, I really just want some genuine adult conversations and a REAL friendship. ๐ฅน๐ Somebody I can laugh with, talk about life with, have random girl talk, and just be myself around. No forced conversations, no one-sided effort, just two women genuinely wanting to build a friendship.
I love my family and being a wife and mama, but sometimes you just need your own person outside of all that. ๐ซถ๐ฝ
Am I the only one craving this kind of friendship lately? ๐๐

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So Iโm a mom of two and I donโt know if anybody else has felt the way that I feel but I havenโt really been out without my kids in years and when I make plans with somebody I feel like sometimes I get cold feet end up not going because I have just too much anxiety and then I self sabotage and beat me myself up for not going and making new connections

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Any moms from nyc who just get it? slang and all ?

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