Hello! I’m 19 years old looking for some mum friends close or far that I can message as I’m struggling to make friends with how far I live from my current ones!
I have a 5 week old baby girl 🦩🌸
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Learn more about our guidelines.Just a stressed out first time mom with a 4 month old, lost a lot of my friends after being pregnant and having the baby and I just want someone to talk to or maybe even hang out with. 🫤

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So BD and I were just talking and the question of when did I lose my virginity came up. I did not feel comfortable answering him. So I told him. The reason behind this is when he knows something about my past he uses it against me later on during arguments. I said this to him. He said he wouldnt. I still dont trust him because hes done this many times. Mind you ive been with him 4 years. Ive never asked abt his past hes never asked much about mine. I honestly think if it happened before me its not something I NEEEEED to know unless he wants to share. Dont get me wrong I want to know about him and what made him who he is today. But intimicy is just… idk. Honestly Im not proud of the age I lost mine. But mostly its just me not wanting this brought up later on being the reason why I dont want to tell him. Anyway aftwr I said I didnt feel comfortable and kept saying I wouldnt tell. He kind of gave me an ultimatum saying he didnt want to be w me if I keep secrets. I responded by saying well I dont want to be w you if youre not going to respect my boundaries and youre going to call it quits over this. Everntually we said well talk about it after work. Am I wrong? Should I just tell him? Or what should I do or say?
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At this stage in my life, I really just want some genuine adult conversations and a REAL friendship. 🥹💕 Somebody I can laugh with, talk about life with, have random girl talk, and just be myself around. No forced conversations, no one-sided effort, just two women genuinely wanting to build a friendship.
I love my family and being a wife and mama, but sometimes you just need your own person outside of all that. 🫶🏽
Am I the only one craving this kind of friendship lately? 👀💕

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So I’m a mom of two and I don’t know if anybody else has felt the way that I feel but I haven’t really been out without my kids in years and when I make plans with somebody I feel like sometimes I get cold feet end up not going because I have just too much anxiety and then I self sabotage and beat me myself up for not going and making new connections

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I am so misarble in my life,I feel like I made a mess out of it.I had to relocate due to domestic abuse,I m single mum,no friends,I have loved here for 4 years now,and I have tried to make friends,noone is interested,even if I do,they eventually ger weoooed up in the own life's.. I had a friend,and she got offered better job,got a new car,and I feel like her attitude changed,I m the one who os texting her all the time and she finds excuses not to carry on conversations....I haven't achieved any of my dreams,I donr drive,don't have a car,can't afford to travel,it's such a misarble life..the job I have I low paid(I struggle to find decent job,my daughter is 10 and still need school hours)I'm 45 and I feel like it's always gonna be like this,I feel like I don't have a capability of improving my life,unless I win lottery or find a rich husband....
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Hey girlies! 💗 I’m 27 and a mama to a wild little 4-year-old boy! 🥹 I’m looking for genuine friendships, not just conversations that last two days and disappear. 😂 I love coffee, photography, reading, true crime, and having random conversations about absolutely everything! I’m always down for texting, Snapchat, FaceTime, and hopefully finding a few besties to hang out with! 🫶🏼 Whether you’re local or long-distance, I just want some genuine girlfriends to laugh with, vent to, and do life with! 💕

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