struggling pp

does anyone else just feel so lonely in this season of life? like i LOVE my baby but i miss being a teen sometimes. it’s really hard to see my friends hanging out and never getting an invite to anything.

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yes me too, it just hit me today actually how alone i actually am . i feel like i have no one to call or to talk too anymore since i became a mom

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No bc same. Has my first baby 2022 but even before I secluded myself and since then I’ve been so lonely. Esp now that I just had my second son :/ seeing everyone else my age go out, have friends/ groups, enjoy their youth I feel like I’m missing out on so much and yearn for that freedom again :/ I don’t even go on dates it’s just so depressing and even if I tell my bd he doesn’t make much effort to take me out but he does go out w his friend group :/ it’s so sad I’m only 25 but feel like I live the life of a 50 year old

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i understand this fully. i never really had friends but im now seeing how lonely i really am, my bf works alot so its just me and baby, its so overwhelming.. as much as i love him theres not much that goes on or anything for me to do, i dont even have time to take a long shower and feel like myself anymore

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My life is already lonely, I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and he's been the only one I talk to really. I dont have girl freinds but I wish I did. But I have my family and my baby on the way. All I have to say is you enjoyed your life and you got pregnant, just like I enjoyed my times with my bf and got pregnant and ik my life will change, but I come against any feelings of depression and loneliness when Im raising my child because when I had sex I knew what I was getting into. And honestly if I dont fond friends in the future, my family is enough

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I havnt even had my baby yet and I feel like this too 😭 cut out so many ppl when I found out I was pregnant.. and I’ve been so bad at cultivating the friendships I’ve kept bc pregnancy is a full time job. I’m so scared of losing my three closest friends but I’m also too exhausted to even text them back lol

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