Idk what to do.

I dont feel physically safe with my man when it comes to his family. They can say and do as they please to me and im just suppose to over look it. He always gets upset or try to down my feelings. Honestly, i dont like telling him stuff because then I feel like i have to prove myself to him for him to believe me.

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Honestly my exs family was like that but worse like they seid stuff to me I don’t cear but what I did not like was when they was saying stuff to my kid like stfu man he is a baby and they was making me feel like a crap mum I told my ex but he did not cear till I snapped at his family

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To me its not worth it. Its time to tell him to hit the road

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I dont feel physically safe with my man when it comes to his family. They can say and do as they please to me and im just suppose to over look it. He always gets upset or try to down my feelings. Honestly, i dont like telling him stuff because then I feel like i have to prove myself to him for him to believe me.

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