How much pain are u in

After having my babygirl. I felt great and now in a lot of pain in my lower back and hips with a 1 cm tear. How fast do u walk? Ive been in pain after having her and I'm still waddling and very slow because of the pain.

in our community

Non Speaking

My Boy just turned 2 in September, my concern is that he still doesn't have any clear words, he points and gestures like hands me his empty bottle or grabs things he wants but doesn't verbally say anything... His hearing is fine I know that, he barely gets screen time either and I am trying my hardest to verbalize everything I do or repeat words when he wants something.. anybody else got this problem or advice?🫠

Help with night waking at 9 months

Any tips for getting my 9 month old to sleep through the night? He’s sleep trained and falls asleep independently, but still wakes up 3–4 times a night. What worked for you?

Burping

My baby girl is 3 weeks and she’s breastfed . I’ve noticed when she doesn’t burp she spits up so I try my hardest to burp her . But when she falls asleep it’s kind of hard to get her to burp. What should I do ? Should I not worry about it or should I wake her to get her to burp

What do we consider cheating?

I don’t think I consider this cheating but I’m hurt anyway. I was on my partners phone to play music for baby, mine had died, and he was getting notifications to join lives and alerts for people that he had interacted with posting. I checked and he follows women who post nothing but half naked pictures. The thing that upsets me is that they look nothing like me.

He follows thick columbians and I’m the complete opposite. Sex has been painful and difficult postpartum. His reasoning what that we’re not having sex. Porn I can understand and would assume, but following real women that look nothing like me? I couldn’t even figure out how many, at least 10-20 or more.

It’s not like I don’t try other things, he won’t let me do anything to him UNLESS penetration is involved.

I’m probably triggered as well bc when I was a child, I would see my dad on the computer looking at pictures of naked women and more on his phone/camera.

I had said so many times to my partner that it must be horrible if your partner masturbates to people that look nothing like you. I’m not sure why I’m surprised.

Update: it’s over 100 accounts, I just stopped counting. I can’t even describe how I feel.

I don’t need a break from my baby, I need help with the laundry 😂

Does anyone else have a MIL who insists on taking my 12 week old baby to “help” you get a break? 🫠😂

I know she means well, but sometimes I don’t actually want a break from my baby. I’m happy having him with me, and honestly, having someone take him away from me doesn’t necessarily feel like a break at all!

I’d much rather have help with practical things like cooking, washing up or laundry, but it feels like the main thing she wants to do is hold the baby. Sometimes I also get the feeling that she wants to feel like she’s doing her Nana duty, which I completely understand, but it can feel like her need to spend time with him gets framed as “helping me” when that’s not necessarily what I need. 🥹

I feel a bit guilty because I know she’s trying to help, but I also feel like people assume that because we’re new mums, we must constantly want someone to take our babies off our hands. Sometimes we just want support without having to be separated from our little ones. 🥹

Am I being unreasonable, or does anyone else feel the same? How do you handle it kindly without hurting anyone’s feelings?

How much pain are u in

Trending

in our community

Non Speaking

Help with night waking at 9 months

Burping

What do we consider cheating?

I don’t need a break from my baby, I need help with the laundry 😂

How much pain are u in