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Hi what does everyone do with their baby when you need toilet in public and changing room doesn’t have a toilet. - I never know what to do with her or the pram so I just hold it..
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Rightly or wrongly, I tend to use the disabled toilet if it’s available so I can get the pram in
The pram will usually fit in the women’s toilet. I’ll push it in all the way to the toilet against the furthest wall, open the door I go in first and pull the pram in baby first so I can see my baby/pram, put the brakes on, and pee w the door open. No one will see me pee because there’s clearly a pram blocking that toilet cubicle. That’s if there’s no parent room and no disabled Toilet just men’s/womens or there was a parents room but occupied and I’m busting. Please don’t hold it it’s not good for your bladder
If it’s the only place the pram fits with a toilet I will use the disabled. I have a double pram so unfortunately it happens a lot. If I know there’s somewhere nearby that has a large space I can fit it, I will (if I can) walk a little further to that toilet.
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