I am so sick of feeling guilty and being made to feel guilty. It is exhausting and it's killing me.
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Why do you feel guilty? And more importantly why are you being made to feel guilty?
Oh girls I feel like a right mug. I was seeing this guy for a month and a bit, really liked him. He ghosted me last month and he’s just posted about being on holiday with his girlfriend. I feel like a mug, stupid, an idiot. I believe I didn’t deserve to be just tossed to the side, into the unknown like I was nothing. I said this and he’s removed me. It’s so stupid I’m just so gutted because after a devastating breakup the year before, I was so happy I finally found someone I liked and now I’m back to being alone. I mean it must be me right? People just use me as a stepping stone to get what they want. I don’t think I can keep going in this circle. I’m sorry I know this is a rant I just needed to get it off my chest … to a bunch of strangers 🤣🙈
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Is anyone else finding recovery really hard?? I’ve completely underestimated the whole thing and being 12 weeks postpartum now, I thought things would be getting better, not worse. The episiotomy and tears I had are still sore, I’ve got new tears which are so painful, my pelvic floor is shot and I can’t bend my spine backwards.
I’m so so enjoying being a mom and I love her to pieces but I just feel like I can’t fully move on from what was quite a traumatic birth
Rant over 😂

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I am FREAKING OUT! Today my 11 month old point blank refused his second nap, he ended up being awake for 7 hours and 20 minutes and I know this is too long 😫 but I tried and tried to get him to nap, I tried every 20 minutes from 2:45 till 5pm and he just wouldn’t go down. What the hell is this!? What am I supposed to do tomorrow?!
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My baby is 9 days old today and he has some red blood in his nappy from his poop. Had taken him to A&E and the poo became normal so we got sent home. Since then it’s happened once again. Does anyone know what this can be? He’s seems himself everywhere else

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My little girl is only 11 days old, but she needs to suckle on my nipple or her hands to fall asleep. I don’t want her to suck her thumb I’d rather have her use a dummy. She stays on my boob after feeds but gets annoyed by the milk coming out as she isn’t hungry, so I am wondering if I should maybe give her a dummy already but I am worried that I is too early?!

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I’m almost 16 weeks now and starting to feel urges to declutter and sort our spare room but then I look at it and feel too overwhelmed 😩 ( I have two toddlers already so keeping up with their mess is enough) I just want to deep clean for days 😂
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