Want to give birth again
Ok maybe I’m psychotic, but had a VBAC as always wanted to experience birth, and it was traumatic and incredibly painful, as expected. Yet the power and intensity of that moment when you have gone through all of the pain to be passed the most precious little thing in the world. It’s incredible. Only plan on having two kids so not going to go through it again but feeling sad that il never experience this again. Am I crazy? Or is this relatable at all?
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I’m a third time mum, and the last birth was the most straight forward, to the point i would do it again! It’s madness isn’t it? As it’s the most painful and challenging thing, but I think when it goes smoothly and you have your precious baby at the end of it, it’s all so worth it and feels incredible. I’m putting these crazy thoughts down to the hormones. My partner looks at me like I’m mad when I say these things out loud to him 🤣
Yes my baby is 8 weeks successful vbac and he was early and it was such an incredible positive experience I want to do it all over again we also are only having two but I want to go through that again??????WHY😂
Haha nope, your not psychotic! it crossed my mind aswell and my baby is 6 weeks old. It was the most painful thing and it felt like an out of body experience but the 2nd he was on my chest 😭🥰 it was the best feeling. I literally felt like superwoman BUT I have no plans on having more kids now I have a 6 week old and a toddler 🥴🫠
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Ok maybe I’m psychotic, but had a VBAC as always wanted to experience birth, and it was traumatic and incredibly painful, as expected. Yet the power and intensity of that moment when you have gone through all of the pain to be passed the most precious little thing in the world. It’s incredible. Only plan on having two kids so not going to go through it again but feeling sad that il never experience this again. Am I crazy? Or is this relatable at all?
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