Advice on potty training

Please tell me what worked for you to get your boys to go on the toilet. My oldest will be 3 in January and he is absolutely refusing the toilet. Ive tried having him run bare bottom and he just freaked out the whole time because he didnt have a diaper. I tried letting him pick out his own potty. I now have a hot wheel tiny toilet and a spiderman toilet seat 🙄 I've tried candy/toys and he lost interest in the object completely. I tried bribery. I told him i would buy the biggest monster truck, take him out to dinner and take him to go ride a horse and he looked me dead in the eyes and said "thats not fair." Any time anyone brings up the toilet he screams no. And i want him potty trained so badly. I feel like im "failing" in a sense because my friends who have kids who are around his age use the bathroom. And i know theres no reason to compare children but its a little hard. So any other advice?? I feel like I've tried all the well known tricks

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I would say first, try to take a step back from all the potty talk, it's become a trigger it seems and that's not going to help. Id buy a little potty (maybe let him pick one while doing a search online so he feels it's his his), and buy a variety of potty books that normalize it. Leave the potty in an obvious and easy location, maybe next to the big potty, let him see you guys sit and use it, to help normalize it.

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Advice on potty training

Please tell me what worked for you to get your boys to go on the toilet. My oldest will be 3 in January and he is absolutely refusing the toilet. Ive tried having him run bare bottom and he just freaked out the whole time because he didnt have a diaper. I tried letting him pick out his own potty. I now have a hot wheel tiny toilet and a spiderman toilet seat 🙄 I've tried candy/toys and he lost interest in the object completely. I tried bribery. I told him i would buy the biggest monster truck, take him out to dinner and take him to go ride a horse and he looked me dead in the eyes and said "thats not fair." Any time anyone brings up the toilet he screams no. And i want him potty trained so badly. I feel like im "failing" in a sense because my friends who have kids who are around his age use the bathroom. And i know theres no reason to compare children but its a little hard. So any other advice?? I feel like I've tried all the well known tricks

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