My husband shaved his head and i give birth next week.

i even told him hey let’s go to barber shop to get it done right at least and he said ur still not over it and got sad i don’t love it, even tho i told him i didn’t want him too and it’s choppy… like wtf i’m also always telling him i’m hormonal why do this change 😭

I get it, because you’re used to seeing him a certain way and it’s an unwelcome surprise when you’ve already got a lot on your plate. Definitely understand the reaction and initial annoyance/surprise. But in the grand scheme of things, he is allowed to have his hair however he wants, so I would try to acknowledge the feeling then move past it, you’ll get used to it soon enough. Like I wouldn’t waste time being angry about it, you already spoke about it so knew it was coming it’s just not on the timeline you thought. If I told my husband I was getting a haircut and he said “no, wait two months” I’d tell him to piss off tbh 😂

Well tbh I understand where you are coming from . It’s hard with the hormones and all the changes

No I get it, with all the pregnancy hormones I’m guessing it’s the same kinda feeling kids get when their dad shaves their beard off like it feels like your looking at sm1 diffrent and aren’t 100% comfortable with him now since to your brain he looks like a different person? Lmao, I’m sure yous will get over it haha

Ngl I would be unwell. My dog got a bad haircut when I was 2 weeks pp and it really bugged me, cant imagine if it was my husband 🫠

My now husband came back from his stag do with a shaved had 3 weeks before our wedding … one of the biggest arguments we had 😭😂😂 his body his choice, but why ask for an opinion if you’re not going to listen 😭 i was so angry at him but also at his friends and my brother in law who brought the trimmer and had the “glorious” idea.