Community Posts, Tips & Support on Labor & Birth

i think i have most of what i need but what are some essentials to have packed in your hospital bag?

Already talked to my dr and he said to just monitor my pain. I was 1cm dialated yesterday at my ob appointment, well about 20 mins ago I'm pretty sure I lost my mucus plug. I know that they can grow back and it doesn't necessarily mean I'm going into labor anytime soon. What worries me though is that it wasn't sligh...

In my last appointment Dr said that baby weight is quite high so what do you want induction or cesearen I tell her I wanna go with induction then a lady I meet she told me not to go for induction as that are very painful and ended up in cesearen. I was afraid and tell the midwife wanna go with cesearen directly inst...

This morning I received my first membrane sweep at 37 weeks pregnant. My midwife also said that I was 4 cm dilated. I am so nervous and only been cramping but no bleeding. I pray baby girl comes between the 48 hours!! Anyone else got theirs done yet? If so, how did it work out for you? Share your stories please.

Currently 32 wks.. when did your provider let you know/schedule your c section?

Hi girls, I’ve got my sweep done about an hour ago and I was already 2cm dilated when they did my sweep. They have put me on the list to break my water tomorrow. How likely am I going to go into labour before they break my water?🥹 Thank you in advance xx

So I’ve been having to go use the bathroom (💩)a few times already today. My stomach feels super heavy now and I feel like baby is definitely head down and lower. Not quite sure if this is a sign of approaching labor but I definitely hope not bc I’m only 35w 4d 🥴. FTM and I want my little girl to cook just a tad…

So I did not lose my mucus plug with my first baby so I have no idea what it looks like. This very thick mucus discharge is coming out at the moment in blobs like this. Has no smell or anything Is this normal? I am 34 weeks pregnant.

I am 5 months Post Partum & my scar is still feeling quite tight and purple/red. I do massage it but doesn’t really do much. Has anyone bought anything that’s seemed to help reduce redness that can be recommended please.

Has anyone else found they ‘leak’ when doing exercise? I’m now 6 weeks PP and it’s really getting me down :(

My first birth was really scary. My husband wants me to schedule a c-section this time around. This is probably gonna make me sound terrible but I’ve always been scared if I get a c-section my tummy would never be flat and perfect again. My husband says I can just get a tummy tuck later, but I’m kinda against not...

Please for Croydon university hospital, what transportation arrangements do you ladies recommend for those of us that don't have cars. Will uber work?

My LG was born at 32 weeks and was only in NICU for 13 days. She is now 12 weeks old (4weeks corrected) and I’m struggling a bit because I feel like we’ve been stuck in the newborn phase FOREVER. She is 3 months old but only now the size of a normal term newborn, still feeding every 2-3 hours day and night, and we’r...

Hey everyone, just wondering how everyone cared for their c section scar after having your baby? i’m having one in around 7 weeks time and was wondering what helped your scar and prevented it from getting infected? thank you!

I just got a call confirming the date of my c-section. I was expecting to be relieved to have a Date to work towards but since I found out, all I feel is terrified. Is this normal? What can I do to prep?

Sorry if this has been asked already! Due to give birth in Hillingdon soon, not long to go! Just wanted to see if anyone knew how many people are allowed with you when you give birth? Is it one or two? Really want my partner and mum with me hopefully 🙊

Anyone had sort of mild period pains after a sweep? I’ve lost my mucus plug before the sweep. I’m having period like cramps every 30 mins during the day then it wore off now I’m having them again every 20 mins not for long and it is bare able anyone had this not sure if it’s contractions?

Was it successful? Did it start your labour? I'm about to get it in an hour. Just wanted to hear your experiences.

I’m 24+5 weeks and for the first time ever I’ve just wet myself 🫣. Is this normal for 24-25 weeks?

I live in BK and plan on giving birth at Lenox Hill (UES) this summer. I am a little worried because I don't own a car, nor do my friends. Renting a car sounds a bit unnecessary, especially as I probably won't know when I am going into labor or am being discharged. Can anyone recommend a reputable NYC cab company...