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How would u feel

How would you feel if your partner got a sex toy which I find weird.. bc he wanted to try something else..we got into this whole argument bc when I had a sex toy in the beginning he told me to throw it away.. then after the argument he told me he wasn’t going to get it then he goes ahead and buys it then says he be...

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Should I feel bad??

Im 8 weeks PP and have just sorted out contraceptives to avoid another pregnancy so soon but I think it's upset my partner because his way of looking at it is "it will happen when it happens" Should I feel bad for going onto the pill anyway??

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How did it feel returning to work for those that were a SAHM for an extended/long period of time?

i’ve been a SAHM for a year and a half now and was just looking on indeed out of curiosity what’s out there. however, if i were to return to work i wouldn’t want to put our child into day care so it would have to be evenings and weekends which i feel is limiting. returning to work isn’t a must, nor does my partner e...

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Maternity leave is very lonely

Maternity leave is definitely not what I thought it would be. I thought I'd be out all the time with friends (I have a couple of friends who had babies similar time as me) but they never make the effort or time to do things or just forget to reply to me so it's just me and my LO all the time and while I love him I j...

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If your partner called you a slag & laughed at you. Would you leave?

He also calls me embarrassing and weird for ranting to my sister. And plenty other things.

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Back to Work

I’m new here so I’m not sure if this has been discussed, but how has the return to work been? I have two weeks left with my girl. She’ll stay home with her dad and my mom because they don’t work when I do (both live with me) do y’all think that will ease me any??

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Enhanced mat pay pay back

Has anyone been in a situation where you have left your job within 12 months of coming back from mat leave and have had to pay back any enhanced mat pay that your company paid you?

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Third Trimester Stretches

Hi Ladies! I’m really looking to do some third trimester stretches - I’m definitely a beginner & not into the gym. I’m 30 weeks tomorrow. I’m not having any luck on YouTube. The videos seem to talk you through like you know what the stretches mean but I need a walkthrough 🤭 Could anyone recommend please? Many…

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Has anybody actually made friends on here?

Has anybody made friends?! It’s so hard I want a bestie 🤣

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Vitamin D drops?

So I have no idea if I need to do this or not. One midwife said not until she’s one years old. Another said it’s just a fad you don’t need to do it. Another said I can if I want. I am EBF. Thoughts?

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Can you be sexy and overweight?

So I’ve put on at least 21 pounds since having my LO 2 years ago, my sex drive has gone downhill (probably cos I’m knackered all the time) My partner has never really had a high sex drive and tbh he’s not that great at it… I do try and discuss things with him and he’s improving. I’m not overly worried but do you t...

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Vitamin D Drops

My LO is EBF and nearly 6 months old and since birth i’ve been doing vitamin D drops, i ran out when she was was 2 months and forgot to buy more until a few months ago, i try and do it every day but a lot of the time i forget, now im anxious that im going to cause her problems, i do try and do it every night but its...

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Life after pregnancy

Anyone else have no friends at all I had my baby boy 3 weeks ago today and since I was pregnant I’ve been pretty lonely and need friends badly especially mommy friends since being a mom is being part of me now

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Sexual time

Do you cum everytime you have sexual activities with your partner?

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New

New here! I’m Addison and I am 17, I have a almost 7 month old little boy just looking for some younger mom friends

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Dinner time

What time is dinner time for you all?

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Terrified to go on Mat leave

I’m 6weeks away from going on mat leave. While I should feel excited & supported, I’m not. I’m getting very anxious as my husband has been emotionally abusive & it’s worsened in the past 3weeks. I can’t leave as the house is in my name & I’ll still be liable to pay for rent even if I go elsewhere. And I don’t have f...

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BLW food ideas

Does anyone have any simple recipe ideas for blw weaning?

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Deep heat

Does anyone know if you can use deep heat while pregnant? I'm also taking aspirin. Waiting for the doctors to call me back but I'm in agony. Thanks

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Contraception

Are you allowed to breastfeed when taking the pill? The pill you take everyday rather than having a weeks break can’t think of the name begins with a d I think

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