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Complaint Buddies

Anyone want to be complaint buddies? I just need someone to vent to that can feel me and you can message me to do the same lol. All my mom friends aren’t currently pregnant, not as far along as me, or have already had their babies. I have a 3 year old and I’m 33 weeks, 3 days now. Let me know if interested lmao

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Group chat?

Are there any groupchats available?

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Am I losing the plot?

My partner came back from work and as usual I slipped into bed with him to enjoy some cuddles. I slid my hand down there but something wasn’t right. I could smell a perfumed scent on his d*ck and it felt really moisturised. He hadn’t gone to use the bathroom yet and he went straight into bed from work after gettin...

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This man is horrible.

Just found out my baby daddy recently got a whole other woman pregnant and is currently not support me or that mother and the child and is in a whole other relationship with another woman with her own kids, I found this out from his best friend, his best friend was both our mutual friend so he has absolutely no reas...

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Need friends

Hey everyone me and my husband just moved to Woodstock, Ga from Boston! Im 21 weeks and have decided to stay home! Would anyone want to hang out? I’m honestly up for anything just need to get out of the house and make friends!

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Not Adjusting Well

How did you adjust to stay at home life? I’ve only ever worked and am at home as a first timemom. I find it hard to be grateful for this chance. Every day is the same and it’s lonely. Any grandparents to be apart of the village all work full time. I have no siblings or friends near. So it’s really just me and the ba...

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Alone

Is anyone else doing pregnancy alone and really struggling? The loneliness is unreal, especially seeing others doing it with their partners or the judgments I’m getting for the dad walking away 🫠 I feel like a lot of my ‘friends’ don’t bother with me now I’m pregnant too which has been really upsetting

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Therapy

Has therapy helped save any of your relationships or marriage? I'm not married but have been together 9 1/2 years, IF HE is willing to do it with me. It's hard not knowing if I should just give it all up or keep on trying but it's getting exhausting...I need to be stronger.

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Have any of you been on a sunbed whilst pregnant?

I got on holiday next week and I just wanted to get my skin use to the heat before I went! No where on line says that you shouldn't use some beds but it also doesn't say you should of that makes sense.

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Working 😭

Hey mummas! I’m having a crisis atm about work. I went back 3 days a week when my daughter was nearly one and around Jan this year I started to do 4 days per week. I’m finding it so hard to fit in all my work in the 4 days now and the lack of money is getting a bit rough. I love my day with my daughter though and I ...

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I’m scared to make friends

I feel like I’m too sensitive and like I don’t understand people. I’m also worried that I’m going to mess things up somehow. Or that I’ll end up feeling used. Or that I prioritize my partner too much and will alienate Any potential friend. Or that I’ll be disappointed in some way. Friendship is just kind of a loaded...

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No more sex, is this normal?

My partner and I barely had sex before baby, it was once month at most. The last time we did, I got pregnant. That was 10 months ago, do you think this will ever get better? For context, he had a porn addiction and was doing this anywhere he could after I blocked it from our wifi. He says he stopped, and I want to...

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Recipe suggestions for veggie batch cooking for post partum?

I’m keen to get a load of food cooked and in the freezer ahead of time but feeling so stumped on what to do. Looking for nutritious, healthy recipes!

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Brand new here

Looking to make some Mummy friends and have play dates, my daughter is a year old and has no friends to play with other than my nephew who is a year older ❤️

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Meet ups🥹

Hello Beautiful lady’s, I’m looking for someone who would like to do meet ups and days out, it’s so lonely just going out on our own🥹 my son Kobi is desperate for friends around his age, we also don’t do nursery so would be amazing for his social skills!

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UC

I have an 11month old and my Maternity pay finished last month and I’m now on UC. I’m due to receive Holiday pay from work for one month starting from may 26.. will UC close my claim completely once I’ve receive this? If so will I be allowed to reapply again for UC? As I’m pregnant and not due to go back to work ne...

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Progestogen only (mini pill)

Hi! Has anyone else who is also on the progestogen only / mini pill had a similar experience ? Before having my baby i didn’t get a period at all on the pill but now after baby i have gone back on the same pill and am getting periods from 3 months pp? Obviously not end of the world but i did like not having a p...

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Husband not turned on

So me and my husband got into a small arguament last night, as since being pregnant we have not had sex, it’s always me pleasuring him, he said last night that me being pregnant doesn’t overly turn him on, feel so hurt by this, I’m literally all bump, put on no weight, have smallest bump ever, I just can’t look at h...

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Housing benefit while working

Hi all, I wonder if anyone knows what the highest salary you can get while receiving housing benefit / UC. I am looking for part time work and hoping to eventually go back to full time once I get back on my feet properly, but still need some financial assistance at the moment. Thanks

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Mounjaro and 2 weeks pp advice

Morning gals, I'm 2 weeks pp and I'm not breastfeeding, I get married in 4 months but got the worst overhang and put on so much weight. I'm still yet to find a dress but going dress shopping is stressing me out being so over weight. Ive recoveed so well and up and was up and about doing normal day activities withi...

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