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How do you guys feel about your 9 week old baby going with disrespectful father and girlfriend?

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Excatly how I feel and being seen as bitter or “I’m mad because dad doesn’t want to be with me” girlfriend is on Facebook posting statues pertaining to my situation with my sons father “why would you wanna keep a baby by a man that begged you to get an abortion . Or if a man says to get an abortion don’t keep the baby” I don’t want my son around that better yet I have to hear it from the dad now the girlfriend thinks it’s ok to talk in regards to the situation. “Dad” feels as if “I shouldn’t worry what he does with his son, and I’m mad I’m a single mother with 2 baby daddies” smh . He’s been absent my whole pregnant , never signed birth certificate, got dna still didn’t come see my son , my sons is now about 10 weeks he’s only saw pictures he wanted to take my son for fathers to spend time but I declined due to the disrespectful girlfriend being around MY SON and he’ll broke loose

Nope and I’m called bitter because I don’t want my son being around people are going to disrespect me infront of my child plus my child doesn’t need to be getting ear infections from the smoking in the house over there or bug bites from bed bugs or bite marks from his dads girlfriends child that’s his age he would come home with atleast 4 or more then he’d come home from his dads and I’m not having him go over there because his girlfriend has two kids and they have one together and they pay more attention to them then they do his son and his girlfriend tries to say Im just mad because I’m not with him like I have my own family I don’t want him

Try thinking about your baby rather than the girlfriend. It’s a great thing when a father does want to see their child and spend time with them. Kids deserve fathers even if they disrespect you. Let the child decide that growing up if they don’t want their father in their life, don’t make that choice for them. Or better yet just start with a paternity test and take it from there. One day your kid will find out you’re the reason they never got to see their dad and could resent you for this. Just a thought

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