I'm so bored and it fucking sucks and im tried of hearing myself say it

feel free to msg me, love! motherhood is truly lonely and it’s not talked about enough. tons of other moms are going through the same thing right now! i don’t have a ton of advice but i’d love to talk to at least get your mind off things🩷🩷

So go out without the baby. Or do date night.

Ignore him when he calls

Get a Saturday job

i litteraly can't go out anymore with or without baby because we have no money. I haven't been on a date with him since the first 8 months of my babies life

Yes I am the one that manages it but I manage it in a sense that I won't be on the street with my kid instead of making sure we're all entertained and having enough fun pictures to boast and post about

And its not like he isn't working hard for it, he is beaten bruised and sunburned when he comes home he just isn't paid what he's worth and can't find another decent person to hire him AND pay what hes worth ( not that this is our fault its just a shitty world)

And while I have thought about a side job that I could work while he is working ( I can't find one, I've been looking since pregnancy) or even getting a part time at a Wendy's for Christ sake 🙄

I wouldn't be making enough to make a difference to us because of drive time or taxes being taken and as he works 6 days out of 7 that leaves me with the 7th day to do a -one day get out of the house job- and miss my husband's only day off to spend with us

All in all it fucking blows

And while it would potentially solve my loneliness (having a job) its taking away the select time I get to spend with my whole family there's no telling if this job really would do me good or crush me harder

I am so sorry you’re going through this. Maybe you can befriend another SAHM on here and y’all could team up. You can watch both babies for 1 day and then she can watch them the next day. If you do that each week, then it gives you at least 1 day for yourself

i used to have am amazing friend i met on here and we even lived close enough to visit each other's houses it was magical ..... until it wasn't

She needed to move away we all have our own reasons for needing a move but we'll just say it just wasn't in the cards for them to stay

And now we're coming up on the 7th month since and we've both changed, she has gone back to her home town with so so so many friends and family its a hassle to get to the phone to ask how I am anymore on top of all her kids and house duties and im left here with crickets and an emptiness that feels like being abandoned ( just how I feel I know im not) but it just hurts it gave me hope for a little while that I could do this and I wouldn't be alone but im alone again and struggling to find a new local friend which has never been easy for me

I've been doing the same thing, on a loop for years 😭 and I'm so tired of it. I work weekends and that used to be my time to "reset" mentally but I haven't worked the past 4 weekends so I'm feeling extra sad, extra board and extraaaa broke! Lol. So now even the same ole things we do every day for "fun" outside the house can't be done because I don't have the money to do them. I'm going stir crazy. My only friend lives 4hrs away and I'm lucky if we talk once a week. If I don't find childcare and a full time job soon I'm going to go bananas 😅
I don't have any advice unfortunately but I just wanted to share and let you know that you're not alone 💜 I'm here if you want to message

Aye on the low, smoking some 🍃 really chills you out and Gives you patience and you enjoy everything around you so much more. De-stresses you too. Maybe try it? I haven’t done it in two years for personal reasons but I still crave it sometimes. It definitely helps a lot. Don’t come at me, I’m just saying. Could help a lot. 😌

Or edibles 😅

zero hate or backlash i already smoke and have been a smoker for years im just quitting and have been the past few months ttc