Am I wrong ?

It shouldn't be forced on you but if I could help I would. Meaning, I wouldn't let the child suffer for the actions of irresponsible grown ups. But on the flip side, they should support you ask you to do things rather that demand or imply that you help. Also, is it possible for them to arrange getting the proper papers for said kid?

I agree if the other parent is alive and there are no concerns around safety, that parent should be allowed to make the first decisions... Including whether that parent wants the child to be at your house.... which that parent should ASK and also provide support.

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No way should they demand you but the other side . It's not the childs fault. And probably feels left out. Children see alot more than we think . Id treat that child like my very own just because. Do not let anyone demand or force you to do anything. Put your foot down and have a conversation. Much love. If you need me my inbox is always open love 💕

the mother is alive and looking for him . This is the part I don’t want to be apart of . They only want the kid for disability money because he a midget

my husband and his mother stop talking to me . I have no help with my 2 kids plus I’m pregnant. My husband mother doesn’t work and she is lazy . She took the kid so do the work . It’s not my problem. His real mother is looking for him and this is wrong . She only wants him around to get the government money because he is a midget

the kid is not mine . It’s not my responsibility. I have my 2 kids and I’m currently pregnant. This kid has cause no much problem in our house . He steals and has psychopath behavior towards my kids . I don’t want him around my kids. His mother is looking for him and they keep him hidden away from her

no!!!!!! His father mistresses kid

I wouldn’t date a men with kids. We got married very young and all my kids are his

I don’t my kids getting involved because when Cps comes any kid that is the house will be taking away as well

I heard otherwise

I don’t feel bad for him because he is thief and liar. We had party and he lost their jewelry and money from their bags . I was so embarrassed. He stealing food and threaten my kids . The fact that my husband doesn’t see that this is a problem.

Y not just contact the kid's mother urself? If he is causin so many problems for ur kids & marriage, y not take matters into ur own hands and call the mother of this child? If I were in that situation and I was lookin for my child I would want the person that knew where they were to contact me, even meet me in public and bring me my child. If ur husband and or/MIL say somethin tell them it's legally kidnap when they have no legal rights to the child. If they don't like it they can take the mom to court but u want no part of it and if they try and drag u into it then tell the judge how neither of them took care of the child they tried to put the responsibility on u even tho u already have 2 kids and r pregnant.

I will try to contact her .

and I’m divorcing my husband afterwards because I been living a lie . He told his mother is dead but she is alive

The kid needs guidance and love. Everyone keeps giving up on him . That's why he acts the way he does. He's just passed along. It's not the childs fault . His behavior is brought by grown ass adults who think he's a pawn

my husband mother should do that then . Do pass nobody kid on me . Yesterday his mother left the kid in the house unattended. Like I said my husband mother doesn’t want him . It’s only for the money

I understand where your coming from. Put yourself in that childs shoes . Understand what he sees and hears. It's traumatizing for him. I understand he's not your child. But he shouldn't be pushed around like that. You shouldn't be dammanded either. But at the end of the day that child needs someone. And no one wants him
Hell I'll take care of him . ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I would try anything in my powers to get it off my hands. Call the cops, call the parents, call child services. I am thinking if shit hits the fan and that child is found at your place, you will be held accountable too. So I would cover myself by not keeping quiet with it.

If you feel afraid of them, report it anonymously. Don't give enough details that will trace back to you but tip off someone.

It's cps needs to be called. He will be placed somewhere else.
But please be careful with cps he may never be seen again . It's sad world we live in.

I understand what you saying. This kid can’t be trusted . He told my husband that I wanted to kill him and my husband believed it. This kid is psychopath and trying his best to destroy my family. He told so many lies on me because I told his mother I’m not doing anything for him . My husband mother is demanding that I take care of him . She doesn’t even help me with my pregnancy or my 2 kid now . It’s depressing for me . I don’t want to be apart of any of this . I want just my family back to the way it’s supposed too . He stole my car and crashed it . There is so much more to the kid than you think. He told my son he wants me out the picture and he wants my husband to be his father . He is 13 and knows better

I have an 18 16 13 and 2 year old. My 18 year old has done some unimaginable things . I absolutely know what you're dealing with. I get it. Something absolutely needs to be done but that child needs help and unconditional love and not passed around just because no body wants to take care of him.....

the woman that has him should do that not passing on to me