What even is sleep?

So my little boy woke up at 2am and I mean wide awake. He won’t go back to sleep now till about 5ish. What do I do? Any routine is out the window today. I just dunno what to do. His sleep is so bad at the moment I’m all over the place with it (as is he!) do I just let him sleep?!

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Same here. LO has been awake since 1:40am and still going strong.
He’s poorly so he didn’t go to sleep till 9:30pm he only had one nap today but since being poorly his sleep is so shit I give up with a bed time and wake time.
I’m also ill though so need all the sleep I can get so I’m just letting him sleep when he does

I struggled to get mine down till 10.30 and he only had one nap today too! Thanks, I feel like I’m letting him down by letting him sleep and wake up naturally. But like you I need sleep too because I’m massively struggling. Hope he gets to bed soon for you both xxxx

Same. Ours is anything between 1 and 3am wake up and then it’s at least 2 hours to get him back to sleep. I’m also back at work so it’s slowly killing me 😂

We had this problem and it is exhausting. For us, pushing wake windows and capping naps worked well and she sleeps until 630am.

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