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I just need to vent-I’m fucking tired of the man child I have as a husband

We have a 5 month old and my childish bd says he is so tired of his life because I ask him to be quiet when he gets to the room where the baby is sleeping, he is so tired because he can’t turn on the rooms light and because he can’t watch videos loud before falling asleep, also because I asked him not to go to the room and change his clothes because our baby was asleep and he always wakes him up

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He’s jealous. Just mother him the same as you do the baby. Let them each have their own bedroom and space so he doesn’t feel left out. We had triplets a year ago and my husband has a big bedroom and en-suite to himself so he has his own space. The triplets and I sleep in the other bedroom. However that’s all he gets. He can’t do the grown up things he likes like going out tell him. He’s acting like a child and you will treat him like a child. My husband has to help in order to be allowed to do the things he wants to do the same as our older son has to do helping and homework to be allowed video games.

Idk if I agree with you girl. He’s an adult and a parent same as her. She shouldn’t have to baby him or give him his own space. If anything, mom should be getting the room to herself and dad should be with the kids. He’s not helping her by being a father, he’s just being a dad. Doing the bare minimum shouldn’t be praised or rewarded. He’s an adult, not a child. He needs to start acting like it.

If he wakes the baby up, then he is responsible for taking care of the baby then 🤷🏼‍♀️

I agree with this.

Totally agree with
He is a grown up, not a baby. Wtf

but if I treat him like the child he is he gets mad 😒

yeah but that’s not gonna happen 😒

Theb Then the temper tantrum gets dealt with too. Like a child you ignore the bad behaviour and praise the good behaviour. He’ll start to learn he misses out when he’s throwing a tantrum and getting mad.

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My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

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Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do

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Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

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Jealous of my husband

I’m so jealous of him and it’s making me resentful. We have a ten week old and I’m jealous that he is at work all day. I’m jealous he can leave for lunch and actually eat an uninterrupted lunch. Take a phone call uninterrupted. Chat with a friend he runs in to uninterrupted. Even go to the bathroom when he wants uninterrupted. He comes home from work when he wants. He’s not on a set schedule. Some days are late some are early. It depends on when he’s done. I’m jealous he can come home at 10pm and shower, eat and go right to bed uninterrupted because I already have the baby asleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything house wise or baby wise because I’ve done it all. Meanwhile I’m covered in puke and crap and smell like rotten milk. When he is home he is VERY active and helpful. So it’s not that. I’m just jealous his world hasn’t changed and mine has I guess. This isn’t something he’s doing wrong so I’m not sure how to get past this. I wish I could keep him home all day because that’s how helpful he is, but I understand he obv needs to work.

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NHS job

Anyone work for the NHS and does 12 hour shifts? How do you work around childcare and your partners job?

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He has no respect for anything to do with me.

Husband and I decided to separate 3 days ago. I've been sleeping on the floor in the kids room, and we both have to stay in the same apartment for a while. He wont stop pushing little things and I am reaching my limit. Photos in comments

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