Would you get on public transportation with a newborn? Just few weeks old?

Like a bus or train? From one city to another, not just round your own city.

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

I personally waited until we had the 12 weeks vaccinations before going on a short tube ride in London, and the 16 week ones before going abroad and taking a train/plane.

When my little one was a newborn, we was going out at two weeks on buses he was a C-section at 36weeks xxx it’s not like anyone was touching him, and he was tucked into his bassinet with the hood up and very content xx

Yes. I don’t drive and had to use public transport for everything. Still do with my, now, 8 month old.

If anything, I’d say it actually quite nice as you’ve got your own little area on the train and bus so no one just randomly sits next to you or can get too close to the pram

I don’t have a car now so had to take my little one on the train to another town for medical appointments and then ended up going to London a couple times and on the tube before 3 months. Little one has so far been completely fine.

Thank you girls. Just so nervous as I’m not very used to public transportation but we’re not driving at the moment and can’t just taxi it everywhere

We waited 10 weeks before getting on the tube. 2 weeks after first round of immunisations. Went on our first flight at 12 weeks after second round vaccinations.

I did as I didn't get baby out the pram and just made sure I had anti bacterial wipes or gel for my own hands (as baby was a winter baby). I don't drive and my partner had to go back to work after 2 weeks with our first so literally at 14 days old we were out on buses. With my second I was out on public transport again with my 3.5 wek old taking toddler to and fro places. X

I got on the train at 5 weeks and regretted it. I’ve forgotten how loud it is and the soot build up in our noses let alone the babies which we can’t do anything about. Buses are great!

in our community

Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do

Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

Jealous of my husband

I’m so jealous of him and it’s making me resentful. We have a ten week old and I’m jealous that he is at work all day. I’m jealous he can leave for lunch and actually eat an uninterrupted lunch. Take a phone call uninterrupted. Chat with a friend he runs in to uninterrupted. Even go to the bathroom when he wants uninterrupted. He comes home from work when he wants. He’s not on a set schedule. Some days are late some are early. It depends on when he’s done. I’m jealous he can come home at 10pm and shower, eat and go right to bed uninterrupted because I already have the baby asleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything house wise or baby wise because I’ve done it all. Meanwhile I’m covered in puke and crap and smell like rotten milk. When he is home he is VERY active and helpful. So it’s not that. I’m just jealous his world hasn’t changed and mine has I guess. This isn’t something he’s doing wrong so I’m not sure how to get past this. I wish I could keep him home all day because that’s how helpful he is, but I understand he obv needs to work.

NHS job

Anyone work for the NHS and does 12 hour shifts? How do you work around childcare and your partners job?

He has no respect for anything to do with me.

Husband and I decided to separate 3 days ago. I've been sleeping on the floor in the kids room, and we both have to stay in the same apartment for a while. He wont stop pushing little things and I am reaching my limit. Photos in comments