Should I snitch on my BD to his new girl?

Telling her won’t make him do what he’s supposed to do. But if you feel it will then tell her. I definitely do think a conversation between you and your child’s father needs to be had because if he still feels like he has access to you, then this won’t be the last time he does this. You’re not wrong for having sex with him because that was your man at a point and is still your child’s father. But definitely do it’s right for your child and not what feels temporarily right in the moment

I was in this situation as the girl and it fucking traumatized me with how I was told because all the bullshit he fed me I would have never thought in a million years he’d do that. I would tell her, but don’t be spiteful. You don’t know what he’s been feeding her. I’d also let her know if you plan to do it again. If she breaks it off with him he’ll come crawling to you.. will you give in again? If that’s what you want be transparent. Have proof (she’ll want it otherwise she’ll think you’re just a bitter bm). Be a girls girl and answer her questions with grace. She’ll have plenty and it will be her closure. If she freaks out try to be understanding. He caused this after all.

I mean on one hand, I believe under 5 relationship still alive. So it’s kind of her fault for getting involved with someone who had a child so young. But also, what are you hoping to get out of telling her?

I would tell her but would also keep in mind that they might still stay together.

You knew they were together and you still had sex with him. You wouldn’t come off as a girls girl to me, just sounds messy

You can’t say it’s against your morals otherwise you wouldn’t have done it. Unfortunately you are the side chick in this story

You’re not a girls girl. Lmfao wtf bro

Tbh being a “girls girl” is just a coverup. If you were one you never would’ve had sex with him. Which I am not judging you at all! Like it feels weird, almost like you did it out of spite because of her. You need to set boundaries for yourself and stop letting him have the best of both worlds.

You’ve only been broken up for a month? This is SO messy. I wouldn’t tell her anything. Most of the time, the girl will say “you’re just saying this bc you want him back blah blah blah.” Wash your hands of him and move on, mama. Fr move on. It’s only gonna be drama if you tell her.