Not sure what’s wrong- 5months

Has anyone experienced any of the below problems with their baby?
He’s always a happy baby so this is completely not him. He’s a terrible sleeper but now it’s worse, if it could.

He’s was EBF but now on formula for the last 2 weeks. 2 days in a row now he’s vomitted a lot of milk out everywhere in the evening and just before bed.
For example I was walking around the room with him around 18:45 and it just came out of no where everywhere.

He’s very miserable and takes ages to get to sleep. Crying lots.
He’s been dribbling a lot, flushed one cheek but I can’t see any teeth coming.

All night he just won’t settle in his cot. Sometimes just starts crying hysterically and I can’t settle him at all.

A very tired mama.

Any advise on what it could be?

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The dribbling and flushed cheek is a sign of teething even if you can't see teeth yet! I'd try him with some teething stuff either the parsons powder or anbesol or Calpol to get him some relief!

He may also have reflux due to the formula so maybe trying different teats on the bottle or do paced feeding so he doesnt guzzle it down x

It totally is!! It may just be an adjustment for your little one, it's a change in flow and consistency compared to breast milk so it may just be that! With the vomiting is it just dribbling out his mouth but a lot or is it projectile i.e. a constant stream?

As he's 5 months though it may be a combination with the regression as well, because that can make them very irritable and not able to sleep alone sometimes!

You are doing your best mama xx

I am slowing switching mine to formula and she was projectile vomiting occasionally with bright red cheeks, more so on one side. The HV recommended I try a different formula and if that doesn’t work then to call the GP to check for CMPA. I gave her a couple days of just breast milk to get her more settled and then trying goat formula today to see if that is better. 🤞my friend who also breastfed said she had better success with that.

I should add occasionally she was guzzling it down so I need to do more paced feeding

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