Is bad for me not to want nothing to do with my BD half the time sense I got pregnant?
He has a certain level of disrespect towards me ever sense I got pregnant and I don’t understand why.. and I generally think it’s just natural of him like he don’t do it on purpose
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Since getting pregnant ive gone through phases of being like “how is this going to be the rest of my life im going to be miserable forverr why would i pick this man” and “im so inlove im so happy and greatful he is perfect” i think it could be us not tolerating ANY bs bc of the pregnancy, ive been in a rage with anyone who crosses me even the slightest bit of the wrong way.

What do you mean by disrespect ☹️

Possibly his true colors that you're noticing. Seeing another side to him
I'm from the UK. I was on full pay for 30 weeks and now on SMP.
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Has anyone experienced their boyfriend being mean to them during pregnancy. I fear he is starting to resent me because he’s the only one working rn
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I’m posting anonymously because I feel embarrassed and alone, and I could really use some support from other moms.
I thought I was in a relationship with someone who was only dating me. Then another woman reached out, and I learned he had been involved with her too. They’re no longer together, but I still can’t move past the betrayal.
He asked me to move in with him several times. I tried, but I kept leaving because I never felt emotionally safe with him. Now I’m pregnant, and he still wants to see me and have sex with me, but he hasn’t come to any appointments or really acknowledged our baby.
He says he’s upset that I spoke to the other woman and that I mentioned moving to another state with the baby, where I’d have support. I’m alone where I live now, and I was trying to think about how I could manage.
I feel awful. I keep thinking that if I hadn’t gotten back together with him, I wouldn’t be pregnant and facing this alone. Has anyone else dealt with betrayal during pregnancy? How did you get through it?
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I left my baby daddy in April bc I was a single parent. I did everything for my son while he just went to work and paid his OWN bills and he called it providing. He was even making me pay half the rent and bills too even tho I wasn’t working and caring for baby 24/7. I did nights, cooking, cleaning, playing, bath time EVERYTHING. So he was able to work. But I didn’t get a dime and had to pay him.. and his family is the EXACT same. They said If I stopped paying rent they would take me to court… I honestly started not liking ppl bc of my bd family. They did not value me AT ALL! I was a full time student taking hard classes and raising my son full time. I was up from 6am-1am most days bc I had to.. That’s not right.. BUT my son wants to go back with his dad and me. Im thinking about it bc Raising a child in a single family household comes with so many cons.. more likely to do drugs, act out, etc. idk what to do. I want my son to be happy but I deserve to be happy too… I’m going to nursing school in January and I can’t imagine being with unsupportive ppl while ur trying to build a career. I would crash out
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We are almost there! What you miss the most? Is it some kind of food, the way you were sleeping?
I can't wait to have normal coffee 🤤

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Has anyone else been dealing with a lack of attention and affection from their partner? I’m a first time mom pregnant and I’ve been doing everything alone. My partner works a lot. I feed myself I get my own pregnancy cravings I go on walks/ workout by myself and handle my own emotions I just want to be babied and cared for during my pregnancy
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