Im about to crash out

So last Thursday my boss texts me if i can help cover the week since the other girl called out with a "doctors note". I was like yeah you know my kids going on break it wouldnt hurt to help a bit i have been saying no since this girl calls out 2-3 times a week. And im trying to make a point on hiring someone else, i work graveyard so im at work from 10pm to 6am and i come in last night to find her name in our sales board that she worked yesterday afternoon, i thought she had a "doctors note" so now im here busting my ass off working all week and wont have a day off until monday and Tuesday and then continue working again, all of a sudden shes in? Like she keeps calling out for the night shift and the other girl quit they really think im a robot. My manager doesnt have kids i do i been killing myself working and if its weekdays i have to leave work at 6am and get home to get my kid ready for school i get very little sleep i have a son with autism, he doesnt stay still for more than 5 minutes and hes up and running everywhere. Im exhausted and drained and apparently its okay to take advantage of me. And honestly i wanna cry and break down because all of this is not work the 16.90 im making an hour and for the night shift its just me with no help just 1 server and 1 cook they expect me to restock to wash the dishes to sweep and mop and i come in and notice no one else is doing it because i leave extra out and im getting tired all these people call out and right away they call me. I stop answering and now i feel like a fool for helping out my manager when she could easily pick up the night shift too. She did it last week and didnt come in one morning according to our other coworker she said she worked the night shift and was tired and needed to catch up on her sleep, like okay me too im here working 6 days straight no no overtime no extra pay and no appreciation. Ugh i hate this🫩😤

in our community

So…….

So question
Do yall think 🤔 that texting other men/women online is consider cheating? Or do you think cheating is just physical and texting?

Baby abroad with dad

I need genuine advice whether I’m being crazy.

BD wants to take our baby who will be 12 months at the time abroad to meet his family in Georgia. He currently has her every Sunday, she’s not even been round there overnight yet. This is due to drug charges and other reasons I won’t get into.

We don’t have a court order it is informal arrangent. I have done everything myself for the past 9 months, from sleepless nights, breastfeeding to weaning. I am the primary caregiver.

I am so filled with anxiety at the thought of her being without me for a week let alone abroad?! He’s kicked off and said I’m being unreasonable and it’s not fair.

Is this normal or what? Asking me for reasons why I’m not ok with that?

Am i a shitty mom

My son is about to be 9 months, and we currently live with his dad in a duplex. He doesnt work. If he does he works maybe 3 days and finds an excuse to quit. He says its not worth his time for what they pay. I work sunday through friday 5 am to 1:30 and i cant make ends meet. When i was on maternity leave he let bills rack up crazy and i had to use my whole retun to pay off the bills. And now ik the asshole because we obly jave about 200 dollars till i get paid again on the 18th. This is what he had to say when i complained that we wouldnt have had to use all of my return of he wouldve ketp a job that was perfect for our schedule and for our commute. He quit the job because they obly paid him 18/hr and he wasnt gonna do the job pf a machine for soemone who smokes a vape( he hates people who vape and his manager was doing so). Am i a shitty mom if i take my son away from his dad and run to harbor house? I just cant keep with financial abuse. I try everything to keep us above water and he just spits in my face about it.

be careful who’s on here

This is supposed to be a space for moms and children. I just came across a profile named “Rebecca” that openly said they’re on here because they feel lonely and want to talk to mom . That does not sit right with me at all.
It was a man with a half ass wig and beard. We do NOT know people’s intentions on here, and there are kids involved. This is not a random social app — it’s meant for mothers and a safe environment.

Am I the only one..?

Am I the only one that, sometimes, stop myself from saying something because if the other person has a different skin colour than me I fear they might take criticism as racism?

What am I doing wrong in these convos

It hurts because I can’t even have a normal convo with this guy. Everything turns into me being the bad guy and I’m literally doing everything alone. I just want to feel okay.