Am I being a bad mum??

I mean everyone has an opinion on what’s “right and wrong”… personally, I would stay home. Easter is for family anyway, but that’s just me. X

I'm not religious, so Easter for us is just about chocolate 🤣 shes with her other parent i think youre okay to go out for a few hours with your friends and have some you time, especially considering shell probably be asleep and you on the end of the phone if partner needed you. We have so much pressure on us its unfair. Time for yourself and your own mh is so important too xx

Its one thing to suggest you to stay home but he doesnt need to name call and guilt you

Like you said she’s fine in herself so go, you can always come home if she gets worse but honestly chicken pox isn’t that big of a deal most of the time you can have a few hours out when she’s with her dad. (Also she’ll more than likely be asleep) He’s using it as an excuse as he just doesn’t want you to go 🙄 he’s being the selfish one actually x

I bet if the roles were reversed he'd be fine if he was going out....sod him! You've said your child is fine and will be asleep anyway so off you go

Aa mums we do soooo much, I don't see why he can't let you have an evening off every once in a while. Just because you're a mum?! Is he incapable of taking care of the kids if one of them woke up? Or just jealous or possessive? I don't know him, so I won't assume, but personally, I think it's healthy for both parents to have some time off every once in a while and guilt trips about it are not useful.

Go out - you deserve it!

Sounds like he’s just annoyed as he’s been cooped up. Seems strange to go out Easter Sunday for a night out. I don’t think it’s selfish. Mine barely noticed having chicken pox.

Once the kids are asleep, I would say your time is yours and a supportive partner should be ok with watching his own kids for a few hours?
Why should it fall on mum only?

Why are you being called selfish what’s his reason?

Well, is your husband cancelling his plans every time when your little is not feeling well? How often was he out since you had your daughter? How often were you out since then? I guess, he spent more time out than you did so far. Does he see himself as being selfish? I doubt he has that much self reflection... 🙄
If he gives you that attitude, I wouldn't let him go out with his friends anymore either, leaving you alone with the child - how selfish!!!
He is giving you that attitude only cause I am sure he doesn't want to be alone with his child cause it could become "stressful" if she wakes up and he doesn't want that responsibility? Could that be his reasoning?

I know it’s late, but can’t chickenpox be spread through your contact with your daughter? The virus would be on your clothes, skin, hair. So if someone else’s child hasn’t had it, it could spread via you hugging their mum on the evening out.

But I don’t think you going out while she’s ill or asleep is something you should be guilted for. She has two parents and he is there!